The feeling of loving someone to the point of heartacheLoving someone to the point of heartache could come from many situations.
From the perspective of separation, when two people truly loved each other but could not rely on each other for various reasons, such as meeting the right person at the wrong time, even if they cherished each other and understood each other, they could only look at each other from afar. The longing brought by this separation would be unbearable. Every night, the heart that missed her lover felt like it was being grabbed. She yearned to see her lover and kiss him immediately. However, the chances of meeting him were rare, making this kind of bone-eroding longing hurt her heart. Her heart was repeatedly tortured between love and not being able to get it.
In terms of emotional involvement and deception, when one gave their true heart to the other party, but the other party deceived them, the heartache was extremely intense. This was not a simple breakup or not loving anymore. It was a betrayal of trust. It was like giving all your heart in exchange for deception. It was so heartbreaking that you could not breathe. You felt that you could not find any traces of sincerity left behind by the other party. Even if you faced the other party, you were powerless.
From the nature of true love, true love was unique and accompanied by deep emotional investment. When one truly loved someone, the other party's every move would affect one's thoughts and one would involuntarily empathize with them. For example, when he saw his lover working hard or facing difficulties, even if he was very tired, he would feel sorry for the other party. This feeling of heartache was a manifestation of true love. At the same time, when two people loved each other but could not be together due to various objective factors, the feelings of attachment, reluctance, and helplessness in their hearts would intertwine, causing heartache.
Loving each other is a wonderful feelingFalling in love was indeed a beautiful feeling. It could be reflected in many aspects.
In terms of a sense of security, it was like when one was in an unfamiliar environment or faced with an unexpected situation, the support given by a lover was like a solid support, making one feel at ease and not have to worry about the wind and rain outside. This sense of security did not come from a material house, but from the care of the other party.
Complementing each other was also an important manifestation of love. Even if there were differences between the two of them, such as one being more direct and crude while the other being more delicate and tactful, they could make up for each other's shortcomings and achieve each other's success. In the face of various matters, both sides could play to their respective strengths and assist each other, rather than haggling over each other or forcing agreement.
There would still be a sense of relaxation between people who were in love. They would be able to be themselves comfortably in their interactions, focus on running their family or working hard in the outside world, and not bring pressure to each other.
In terms of getting along, two people who were truly in love often had a tacit understanding when chatting and talked about everything. Moreover, they would contact each other frequently and share everything with each other. Even if they communicated for an entire day, they would feel that there was not enough time. They would also care if the other party replied to their messages in time. The occasional quarrel and jealousy would not affect their relationship, and they would quickly reconcile.
At different stages of love, the feeling of being in love was different. When they first fell in love, their minds were filled with each other. They wanted to stick together at all times. When they touched each other, their bodies would be relaxed and they would feel at ease. After getting along for a long time, if they could accommodate each other's various ideas and get along like friends, their three views would be close and it would be difficult to have conflicts. When they could understand and comfort each other in conflict, their feelings would be even sweeter.
The feeling of loving someone is so wonderfulLoving someone had many wonderful feelings. When one truly fell in love with someone, they would always want to be with the other party. When they were not together, they would miss each other. They would have absolute possessiveness and would be easily jealous. They would care about the other party's feelings very much and their feelings would deeply affect themselves. They would have the desire to have physical contact with the other party. They would feel happy when they were with the other party and their eyes would be filled with love. Love could also be a sweet and happy feeling in a panic. Thinking about the other party would make one feel happy and happy. If it lasted for a long time, it would become a habit, accompanied by a little expectation and uneasiness. If the person you love also likes you, this wonderful feeling will be even stronger, and you will live a happy life every day.
The feeling of truly loving someone is heartacheWhen one truly loved someone, heartache was a common and profound feeling. This kind of heartache was a natural feeling that came from the bottom of his heart. It was to empathize with and cherish the other party. When you truly love someone, you can't bear to see the other party suffer, and you can't bear to see the other party suffer. No matter how independent and strong the other party looks, you will feel that they need care. This feeling did not need to be faked or created. It was real and could not deceive anyone. It reflected the deep love and care for the other party.
In addition to heartache, true love could also be accompanied by other feelings. For example, one would feel inferior and feel that the other party was extremely outstanding and that they were insignificant in front of him. One would feel a sense of mission and want to protect the other party and bring happiness to the other party. One would also feel a sense of happiness and be filled with strength. Even if the other party did not love them, they would still feel happy. It could also be manifested as suddenly missing the other party, caring about the people around the other party and their words and deeds, being easily jealous, having a fluctuating mood, wanting to find trouble, wanting to be noticed, unable to hide their joy, and many other complex emotional experiences.
The feeling of two people truly loving each otherThe feeling of true love between two people included the following aspects:
1. ** Sense of security **: In a relationship, one party can give the other a solid support, like a safe haven in the face of unknown dangers. For example, in the story between I.M. Pei and Lu Ailing, I.M. Pei accompanied and cared for Lu Ailing when she was in a strange environment and worried about the late train. This kind of support and protection from the other party could make people feel at ease. It made people believe that no matter what happened, there was someone they could rely on. It gave people a more stable feeling than a material house.
2. ** Complementarity **: Both sides have differences in personality, ability, etc., but they can achieve each other. For example, Pei was direct and crude, while Lu Ailing was delicate and tactful. In Pei's career development, Lu Ailing could use her own advantages to help him in a unique way. Two people who truly loved each other would accept each other's differences. They would not force the other party to be exactly the same as them. Instead, they would make up for each other's shortcomings and accommodate each other when there were differences in their values.
3. ** Relax **: During the process of getting along, the interaction between the two parties makes people feel comfortable. For example, Lu Ailing flexibly adjusted her role according to her husband's status in the family management. Their family atmosphere was full of China elements, warm and harmonious. A good relationship would not bring pressure to each other. It would be like water that accepted everything about the other party. It would not criticize and nitpick each other, but accept and bear each other's ups and downs.
4. Sense of direction: Both parties have a common vision and goal for the future. Pei and Lu Ailing, for example, both cared about their homeland. They had the same life plans and family values, and they knew where they wanted to go. This common sense of direction made their relationship even stronger.
5. ** Strong sense of concern **: Lovers who truly love each other want to contact each other almost every day and share everything with each other. Even if they share a lot, they feel that they don't have enough time together. Once there was a message that was not answered, she would be worried and even jealous. Even if they quarreled and said harsh words, they would not disturb each other and would quickly reconcile.
6. [The feeling of mutual attraction: When they first met, they were attracted to each other. This was the starting point of their desire to interact.] And men and women who truly loved each other would try their best to maintain this feeling of being moved. Through praise, love, understanding, care, and other methods, they would ensure that their feelings would not grow cold over time.
7. The feeling of caring for each other: Both parties will care for each other passionately and will not let the love cool down over time. This kind of mutual care can make the relationship more passionate.
8. [Respect and Understanding: True love transcends the attraction of external beauty. Both parties respect and understand each other. The other party's appearance is no longer important.]
Loving each other for ten years, feeling the poemThere were many poems that could express the feelings of being in love for ten years. For example, Liu Yong's "Never Regret When Your Belts Are Wider" showed his persistent longing for his lover. He didn't regret it even though he was thin. The feelings for each other might grow stronger after years of love. Qin Guan's "If Your Love Is Long-lasting, How Can It Be Day and Night?" conveyed the belief that love would last even if you couldn't be with him all the time. There was also the anonymous "Life and Death, and Zicheng." Holding your hand, growing old with you."This depicted the beautiful vision of the people in love who hoped to be together for a lifetime. After ten years of loving each other, the desire for this kind of companionship might be even deeper. In addition, when love has gone through ten years, there may also be "ten years of life and death are boundless, do not think about it, it is unforgettable"(Su Shi), such as deep nostalgia and unforgettable feelings for the lover, even if Yin and Yang are separated, ten years cannot reduce the longing.
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