Alexander_the_grey
I view cisgender women, transexual women pre or post-operative, and effeminate men (I find attractive) all as valid relationship or sexual partners for myself.
DaoOfDao:First of all, I am sorry for assuming you are straight. But based on your wording, “if i were gay”, it is “not unreasonable” of me to assume so. But you can’t “identify” as s*xual orientations. You just are. In you case, you “are” neither gay nor straight. However, I don’t understand how Fragile/Toxic Masculinity has turned into “fragile s*xual ego”. Those two are different things. There may be some relations but they are different nontheless. And how does me being heated over a stereotype placed as a negative connotions suggests the latter, or have anything to do with my argument. That is an ad hominem fallacy right there. Nothing to do with my argument which was: There was no need to put “if i were gay” because of its implication in situations which you could have simply said that it was not your cup of tea. Just say it. Why bring other people into a “you” situation. If you are neither gay nor straight, then why bring up the former in the first place. You of all people should know the implications. Unless you lied and only added that in your argument to appeal to pathos. Tell me straight up that you would be fine being with or have s*x with a transgender women -or of some similar sort-and I would believe that it is the truth that you are truly attracted to physical femininity. (Also, just saying, masculinity and femininity is a social construct and could change over time so “physical” is unnecessary) Finally, you seem to not understand the meaning of Fragile/Toxic Masculinity. So I suggest you look it up. Urban Dictionary hasa simplified the definition if you don’t have much time. Again, I apologized for assuming you are straight.