Inosuke doesn't become a Hashira in the manga. The story progresses with him having other significant experiences and achievements instead of achieving that specific position.
It's hard to give an exact number. Different story arcs and battles led to the deaths of multiple hashira. Some died heroically, while others met their fate in unexpected ways. The count changes as the manga progresses.
Definitely not. Genya remains outside the ranks of Hashira throughout the manga. This is because of a combination of factors such as his skills, experiences, and the overall direction of the story.
One great 'Muichiro x Reader' fanfiction is 'A Meeting in the Mist'. It beautifully captures Muichiro's somewhat aloof nature while gradually developing a sweet relationship with the reader. The descriptive language used really makes you feel like you're in the Demon Slayer world with them.