Once upon a time, there was a couple. The girlfriend started to secretly meet another man. The boyfriend, in a strange way, became a cuckold in this fantasy. One day, he found out when he saw her leaving a hotel with the other guy. He was heartbroken but also strangely fascinated by the situation, as if it was a nightmare come true.
Well, I once knew a guy. His girlfriend was always busy with work. One day, he met a new girl at a coffee shop. They started chatting a lot and he didn't tell his gf about it. Eventually, he found himself having feelings for this new girl. But when his gf noticed he was being distant, she confronted him. He realized his mistake and ended things with the new girl, begging his gf for forgiveness.
If you suspect your girlfriend is cheating for the first time, the first thing is to stay calm. Don't jump to conclusions right away. Try to have an open and honest conversation with her. For example, you can say something like 'I've noticed some things lately that are making me a bit worried, can we talk about it?' Maybe there are misunderstandings that can be cleared up through communication.
No. Staying with a cheating girlfriend is not a good idea. Trust is the foundation of a relationship, and once she has cheated, that trust is broken. It will likely lead to more pain and insecurity in the future.
One sign is secrecy. If she starts being very secretive about her phone or where she's been, like always taking her phone to the bathroom or not sharing her location. For example, in a story I heard, the cheating girlfriend would never let her partner see who she was texting.
One story I heard was that a guy noticed his girlfriend was always on her phone late at night. When he finally got a chance to look, he found flirty messages with another guy. She had been making plans to meet up with this other person behind his back.
One sign could be that she becomes overly secretive about her phone. For example, she always takes it with her everywhere, even to the bathroom, and gets very defensive if you ask to see it.
I'm sorry, but without more specific details in this story, it's hard to say much. Maybe it's a rumor or a situation where miscommunication occurred. It could also be a fictional tale someone made up to create drama.