It is better to be cautious enough in beforehand

No relationship should be based on lie and I don't want to start my life with him on any lies or with any hidden secret from my side and also will expect the same from him too. Relationship can only be held strong when wife and husband are transparent to each other not hiding anything from each other and trusting each other no matter what storm hit them. We can live without love but if there is no trust then the relationship crumbles to floor from where it gets difficult to build again to its former glory..... And I don't want to lose his trust from me if he comes to know about it from third party. Who knows what happens in future? So it is better to be cautious enough in beforehand..........