Sharing such explicit sex stories is inappropriate and not suitable for public discussion. We should focus on positive, healthy and respectful topics like relationship building and communication in a romantic context.
You can distance yourself from the source of such stories. You can also make it clear that you don't want to be involved in any way with this kind of inappropriate discussion.
Well, one story I heard was that the two guys were really good friends before. Their first time was more like a natural progression of their deep emotional connection. They had a long talk before about their feelings and expectations. It started with a gentle kiss and then slowly moved forward. There was a lot of communication during the whole process to make sure both were comfortable.
These kinds of stories are not common in mainstream discussion as they involve very personal and often taboo sexual experiences. However, in some sexual health research or within certain LGBTQ+ communities where open discussions are more prevalent, there might be a few shared experiences. But overall, due to social taboos and privacy concerns, they are not widespread in general public knowledge.
It's difficult to say if they are common. There could be a lot of guys who have had such an experience but are too shy or afraid to talk about it. Also, society's view on same - sex activities can greatly influence how often these stories are shared or even occur. Some places are more progressive and might make it seem more prevalent, but overall it's a complex matter that involves personal, social, and cultural aspects.