Such a story is not something that should be discussed as it is likely to be immoral and against social norms. It's important to focus on positive and appropriate content.
A story about helping others can be a great alternative. For example, there was a time when I volunteered at a local shelter. I got to help feed and care for the animals there. It was really fulfilling to see the little puppies and kittens grow healthier day by day. This kind of story is full of positive energy and kindness.
There may be all kinds of wild rumors in the industry, but this one sounds very inappropriate and disrespectful. We should focus on positive and ethical aspects of the entertainment world, like actors' talent and the great works they create, rather than believing and spreading such salacious tales without proof.
No. This is not a common type of story at all. It involves a very abnormal and unethical situation which is not something that is typically found in mainstream or even most alternative forms of storytelling.
To ensure a positive first - time experience in this context, start with building a strong emotional connection with your partner. This makes the physical aspect more meaningful. Secondly, educate yourself a bit about the anatomy and the proper techniques. But remember, every person is different, so be attuned to your partner's responses. Lastly, always respect your partner's wishes and if at any point either of you wants to stop, do so immediately.