Share your own values with her. Tell her about what is considered proper and respectful in a family and in society in general. This can be a simple conversation like 'In our family, we value positive and respectful communication, not these kinds of stories.'
Talk to her firmly. Let her know that these stories are unacceptable. For example, say 'Daughter, these stories are not okay and they make me uncomfortable.'
Another option is to simply avoid the situations where the stories are being told. If it's a group gathering where the neighbor always shares these stories, you can choose not to attend those gatherings.
Well, that's a shockingly inappropriate question. You should immediately stop the conversation and tell her that this is not something that should be discussed. After that, it's important to educate her about appropriate family values and moral standards. You might also want to consider if there are any external influences that led to her asking such a question, like the Internet or bad company.
If your husband likes inappropriate stories, you should have an open and honest conversation with him. Let him know that such content is unacceptable and may have a negative impact on your relationship and his own values.
You need to communicate clearly with those who are involved in creating or spreading such stories. Let them know that this is unacceptable behavior. And also, provide more support and protection to your wife in this situation. It's important to uphold the respect and privacy in your relationship.
If it makes you uncomfortable, you can block them from seeing your stories. It's your social media and you have the right to control who views your content.
If it bothers you, gently share your feelings with her. Suggest other types of books or activities you could do together. For example, you could introduce her to some adventure novels or propose that you both take up a new hobby like hiking. But be careful not to come across as critical of her current reading choice.
You should try to keep your feelings in check. Focus on the professional aspects of your relationship. Avoid any behavior that could be misconstrued as flirting. For example, keep your conversations work - related and maintain appropriate body language.
You should immediately set clear boundaries. Let her know that her behavior is not acceptable in a firm but calm way. For example, you could say 'Your actions are inappropriate and need to stop right away.'
This is a very tricky situation. First, you should firmly and politely decline. You can say something like 'I'm sorry, but I don't engage in sharing inappropriate stories.' It's important to maintain your professionalism and not get involved in any unethical or inappropriate behavior. If she persists, you may need to consider involving a neutral third party or HR, depending on the work environment, to ensure the situation is resolved in a proper way.
You should immediately report it to the local authorities or relevant community leaders. Such statements are not only offensive but may also incite hatred and discrimination.