Applying this idea means understanding that our lives are not just a random series of events. Just as a story has a flow and a purpose, we can strive to find meaning in our daily experiences. If we think of our life as a story, we might be more motivated to make positive changes. For instance, if we see ourselves as the protagonist in a story of self - improvement, we will be more likely to take steps towards our goals. Also, we can learn from the past chapters of our lives, just as we can learn from the plot developments in a story. We can look at our mistakes as plot twists that led us to new understandings and growth.
We can view each day as a new chapter. Every event, whether big or small, adds to the story. For example, a job interview could be a turning point in the story of our career.
One way is to be more conscious of the characters in our story. That means the people around us. We can choose to surround ourselves with positive characters who add value to our story, like friends who support and inspire us. Also, we can work on being a positive character in other people's stories too. This helps in creating a more fulfilling life story for everyone involved.
Perhaps they are suggesting that our lives are full of narrative elements. Just as a story has a purpose or a moral, our lives also have lessons and experiences that, when put together, form a coherent whole. We are the authors of our own stories, to an extent, making choices that shape the plot of our lives.
We can apply it by not giving up on things that are a bit damaged. For example, if a tool is broken but still has some function, we can keep using it. Just like we don't throw away a broken crayon but use it to color.
To apply the idea of 'life between life stories' in our daily lives, we need to change our perspective. Consider the time between waking up and starting work. Instead of rushing through it, we can make it a time for self - care like having a proper breakfast, doing some light exercise, or just sitting quietly and preparing mentally for the day. By doing so, we are acknowledging that these in - between times are not just filler but an important part of our overall well - being and life experience.
We can start by being more present in the moment. For instance, when we are having a meal, instead of just thinking about the next task, we savor the taste, the company, and the experience. Also, when we face difficulties, we should see them as part of the journey and opportunities for growth rather than obstacles preventing us from reaching a destination.
One way is through volunteer work. When you do good by helping at a local shelter, for example, you're likely to find good stories. You might meet inspiring people, like a homeless person who is determined to turn their life around. Their story can be a source of motivation for you and others.
In our careers, we can't assume that there will be a clear path to success like in an Agatha Christie mystery. We might face setbacks that don't have an obvious cause or solution. So, we need to be adaptable and keep trying different things instead of waiting for a 'clue' to fall into our laps. Also, when dealing with people, not everyone has a clear motive like the characters in her novels. We have to be more patient and not jump to conclusions about others' actions.
We should be more patient. Since life isn't a short story, we can't expect instant results. For example, if we're working towards a fitness goal, we know it won't be achieved overnight just like a short - term plot in a story. Instead, we keep at it day by day.
We can start by not expecting every relationship to be like a fairytale. For example, in dating, don't assume that every date will lead to a perfect, long - lasting love. Be more realistic about the potential flaws and challenges.
We can start by seeing every day as a new page in our 'life novel'. Try to make each day interesting and meaningful, like adding an exciting plot twist to a story.