If your partner says it's out of reach, you can try the following ways to reply: I understand how you feel, but it doesn't mean that we can't work towards this goal together. We can work out a plan together to achieve it step by step. I understand your great ambition, but I also have my own life and pursuit. We can stay in touch and discuss how to achieve our goals together. I understand that your dream is great, but I may not be the right person. We can be friends and encourage each other to grow together. I know you may think this goal is far away, but I can show you some practical ways to help you achieve it. Let's work together and see what happens. No matter which way you choose to reply, you must express that you respect her dreams and her choices. At the same time, let her know that you care about her and are willing to work together with her to achieve a common goal.