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My psychological views about the mental level of teenager

#A very sentimental psychy of teenagers is observed by everyone but not seriously taken.

Actually that is the time to sort out all of their problems in their minds .

If not treated, the situation may fall fatal later own.

Some major issues are:

*No one cares about what to to they straightforwardly say before a teenager assuming that he is not a baby now and should not be annoyed or hurted in this case.

*Sometimes ,he is not attended properly so he cannot share his worries with anyone(because every teenager cannot endure lonely we environment.

*Ignoring him makes him mentally retarded sometimes if he seriously wants your intimate love and affection ,except that he is apathic.

There is a frustating behaviour if he is insulted before others because that is the age in which his self-esteem is growing to peak.

In this way he may become lesser jn confidence and then parents scold him that he us the cause of embarrasement for them in world or they have repentence on bringing him into this world.

,*This scolding behaviour sometimes makes him a rebel or full of so fear that even he feels at risk or endangered in his own home.

He frights at night ,weeps alone that mars his character and he is no more going to be a evaluated character personality in future.

#Most important thing is that Advice all the time makes him feel inferior to others and it can even lead to his mental retardation.

#sometimes selective mutism is observed that is taken as introversy in so called world.

Motivation is the best thing to make him feel evaluated and confident.otherwiseche is a compelled deadbody in world of huscle.

#abandments and compelling for a goal he isn't willing yo choose makes him even choiceless and he us no more able to enjoy life like normal people.

ROLE of Teachers:

A teacher is best source of affection and motivation if he treats all the students like his own children.

Somewhere a teacher insults him and even has

no idea what his mind suffered after his behaviour*#again teachers also scolds on poor performance after this behaviour,

Even scientists say that 1st mistake is never to scold or repent then why teachers take the duty to disheart student in case he is much sensitive ,he can even harm his life ,

My experience:

My teacher scolded me hardly in college fir only a minor mistake ,I had never been so scolded by anyone before.

I wept bitterly I wanted to control but cannot it was like My heart was cutting .

Even I caught severe fever next day and I went college bcz I was frightened and My parents even did not ask me to take leave.

I wept all the way and even I fell faint on chair headed down with fever .

Then in 2nd period the same teacher came and started to take lecture.Tgen cane around me and loudly said as told by my fellows later that Why

She is becoming so efficient ,Even she didnot come I don't care.

After this, I was more hurted bcz I had great love and respect I could not tolerate this .

I had typhoid for the whole month but no one asked about my health even fellows bcz a image of mine was created by my teacher in front of them who were intima withme before.

Then i wasa little weak in that subject bcz of health issue even i had a thyroid surgery a month before that incident .

So I could not even talk clearly.

There was nobody to guide me abd that affected my pergormance.But at last I recovered snd built my place by hard work again but teacher never appreciated me .

There was appreciation for every student except me .

#His ignoring made my future at risk I wanted to brcome a DOCTOR and i direly needed him but my reacher never tried to help me come out if situation

Evrn he knew that how much respect I had for him.

Due to health issue I was slightly changed in my behaviour which i could not realise but he was well acquainted besides this he didn't card a out me and allowed me to fall.

Now I am self trying to become a doctor i don't

Know to how much extent i will succeed but i gave to make him stil

PROUD OF ME.

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