When failure becomes a regular matter, there are three things you can do, embrace it, keep cool and step on them climbing up without stopping yourself from achieving the set goals. You're the only person who can do it for you. Others might just brag and then leave you. But you will be there fighting for you and that is all you will ever need.
Huo'er didn't have any visitors and he was glad. He tired to cultivate alone and failed massively each time he tried unable to attain the highest level of ci concentration and strength to travel outside his body towards the stars.