A rotten life and a rotten meIf you feel that your life is " rotten " and deny it, it can be caused by many factors.
From a psychological point of view, there might be a situation of learned helplessness. For example, if one grew up in a smooth environment and lacked the ability to deal with setbacks, it was easy to feel defeated once they encountered setbacks, and then they would deny their own abilities. Or if they grew up in a harsh education environment and did not receive the affirmation and encouragement of their parents for a long time, they would gradually form the concept of " I can't do it " and feel extremely inferior.
A perfectionist mentality could also lead to this feeling. This type of person required himself to do well in everything he did and get first place. If he could not meet his expectations, he would develop self-doubt. If he alternated between first place and other places for a long time, he might fall into self-denial and feel that his life and himself were terrible.
It could also be the influence of a low self-esteem personality, giving oneself a negative evaluation in the long-term self-evaluation, and completely denying oneself after one or two failures.
However, this view of himself and his life was often inaccurate. Everyone had their own bright spots. No one was perfect. Imperfection was the norm. He had to try to get out of his self-denial. For example, when he encountered something, he first noticed if he had fallen into an overly self-denial mood, then objectively analyzed whether the situation was really that bad, whether there was room for redemption or other solutions, and reviewed the experience after the experience to avoid the same problem in the future instead of blindly denying himself. At the same time, he had to see his own strengths and learn to accept himself. He would not be controlled by such negative emotions.
The descendants of the Generals and the descendants of the Buddhists"The descendants of the generals and Buddhists" were often associated with "beggars are not of the lower nine sects". In China's traditional classification of occupations, there were the upper, middle, and lower nine classes. The lower nine classes included the Grand Master, the Yamen Servant, the Scales, the Matchmaker, the Servant, the Time Demon (witch and human trafficker), the Thief, the Steal, the Prostitution, and so on. Beggars were originally of low status, but because of the emergence of influential figures such as Zhu Yuanzhang, Han Xin, Confucius (Confucius once received help from the ancestor of beggars, Fan Dan, when he was trapped in Chencai), and Sakyamuni (asking his disciples to beg for alms was similar to begging), the beggar circle had the saying,"Don't look down on beggars, beggars are not in the lower nine grades." "After the family is established in Buddhism, they will beg you at the door of the saints." Here, the words "descendants of generals and descendants of Buddhism" might mean that the generals and Buddhism had a certain influence or nobility, and the beggars related to them were not regarded as inferior. At the same time, in some cultural context, this also reflected a special cultural phenomenon of identity recognition.
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What is rotten?In some dialect of Xining,"Hai Lan" generally referred to people who lived a sloppy life or did not like to tidy up their lives, and their belongings were placed in a mess.
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