The question I want to know or if it will at least have romance

No

i think its harem with how things kept going , he already has like 4-5 women eyeying on him.

thanks for the warning. I won't be picking this book up then. I don't do harem stories.

Hey can you recommend me some non harem stories.

I don't want to clutter my reply with a huge wall of text, so I'll split up my reply between a few different entries.

My favorite comedy/gaming story: Gamers of the Underworld. (It's a story about a demon who wants free labor, so he summons a bunch of humans from our world and tricks them into thinking that they're Beta testing a super realistic virtual reality game. It's hilarious, and it has a bit of a light hearted / slice of life / parody / "unexpectedly dark sometimes" feel.)

My favorite gaming / action / adventure story: Nanomancer Reborn. (It has a worldwide system they gives people levels and stuff. I usually get bored of that genre quickly, but this one was VERY well done. There's no "power creep" issues, and the rules of leveling up actually make sense and are consistent. This book also isn't JUST about the MC getting stronger. It also has an interesting plot.)

Kubera: (This webtoon doesn't really fit into any common trope very easily. It has its own unique plot, and the characters are awesome! There's no system, Isekai shenanigans, or any of that. It's by far the story that's most special to me.)

My favorite Wuxia / Chinese / cultivation story: My girlfriend from Turquoise pond requests my help after my millennium seclusion: (It has a male protagonist. Because of who his master is, he gets a political marriage with a princess from the dragon clan. They get married some ways into the story, and they have a very wholesome relationship. I know it's unusual for a male MC in a Chinese novel, but there's no harem. Yay!)

My favorite modern day Chinese novel / comedy / adventure: "Spare Me, Great Lord!" (It's a story about a boy who inherited the powers of an ancient demon. He gets stronger through being the direct cause of others' negative emotion. In other words, he gets stronger by making people afraid, disgusted, angry, annoyed, etc. He's extremely good at getting on people's nerves, but he's barely charming enough so that not ALL of his victims want to kill him. He's very creative with his trolling, which is half of the reason I loved this book.)

Honorable mentions: "Brand New Life Online: Rise of the Goddess of Harvest" on Webnovel. "Records of Rebirth" on Webnovel. "It's not easy to be a man after traveling to the future" on Webnovel. "Immortal Wanderer" on Webnovel.

Thanks a lot @Draco137

no problem.

Are you sure its no-harem, I've eyeing the book for a while but don't dare read it for fear it'll be a typical Chinese MC with world toppling beauties harem

it's definitely not a harem story. The romance plot is pretty nice. The main character isn't very romantically inclined. The only reason he gets engaged at first is for political reasons. He and his wife fall in love along the way.

i will just leave my mark here

it's good but the MC is very turtle like

wdym? As in he is very bottom? or coz he slow(dense and weak)

as in, he hides in his shell (sect) unless strictly necessary