A woman seeking a man willing to marry into her family needed to stand on her own two feet, taking on responsibilities as head of the family whose surname was to be passed down. Su Wen would wear the pants in her family. Would any man willingly let go of their pride?
Few. Very few.
Having reached a consensus, the chatting villagers shook their heads, sympathizing with Su Wen's struggle.
There were not many men who would surrender their surname and take on that of their wives.
"He hasn't made a move all morning. Is he planning something?"
They all felt it was the calm before the storm.
"I heard that girl, Su Wen, went into town today."