Juan poured wine into the empty glass. Looking into Barbara's eyes, "Barbara, when I came here today, I didn't even guess what I was going to experience. This is very strange indeed. Life leads people to interesting places. Will we get closer to the words of these two old people? I've never looked at you that way. But I cannot accept that a woman I look at with that eye sees me as if I am only looking at her to fulfill my sexual desires. This is a very humiliating situation. I cannot look at someone who could be my wife this way. I am very confused. There may be gaps between your expectations of marriage and mine. This is a very difficult situation. Even if I spent a few years with you, I might not even decide to marry."