Only when you begin to feel empowered will you be able to establish boundaries in every aspect of your life, including sex. You will gain a fresh sense of self-worth. Tantric sexuality teaches that you are in control of your body and soul. This indicates that you also own your soul and body. Your partner will need to get your permission first if he shows signs of wanting to enter you. You shouldn't be afraid to say yes or no to things based on your needs. Be yourself and say what you like and don't like. Explain to your partner how you want to be touched and how you don't want to be touched. By speaking the truth, you will empower your partner and provide them with all the information they need to know about how you want to feel.