Well, there was a case where a girl met a so - called Nigerian doctor on an online dating platform. At first, he seemed very charming and caring. He sent her sweet messages daily. But after a while, he told her he was in trouble with some medical equipment being held at the port and needed a large sum of money to get it released. She was hesitant but he convinced her by saying it was a short - term loan and he'd pay her back with interest. Of course, once she sent the money, he disappeared.
Typically, they start by creating a very alluring persona. They might say they are successful in business or have a high - status job. Then they quickly form an emotional bond with the victim through sweet talk. Next comes the request for money for some 'urgent' situation like a business deal gone wrong or a family emergency.
I heard of a case where a scammer in an online dating situation pretended to be a wealthy businessman. He charmed the victim with pictures of luxury cars and houses. After a while, he started asking for small amounts of money for various 'business deals' that he said would result in big returns for the victim. But in the end, all the money the victim sent disappeared, and it turned out the pictures were all stolen from the internet.
One of the main patterns in these stories is the over - the - top flattery. Scammers will shower the victim with compliments to make them feel special and lower their guard. They'll also seem very interested in the victim's life very quickly. Then comes the request for financial help. It could be for something like helping a sick relative or getting out of a legal trouble. And they'll keep asking for more money as time goes on, always with new and seemingly urgent reasons.
Online shopping scams are also very common. You might see a deal that seems too good to be true on a website. You place an order, pay the money, but then never receive the product. Some of these fake shopping sites even steal your credit card information. For example, I once ordered a designer bag at a very low price from a new website. I never got the bag and later found out the website was a scam.
Sure. One common online scammer story is the fake lottery win. Scammers send emails or messages saying you've won a huge lottery but need to pay a small fee to claim it. People fall for it thinking they'll get a big payout, but in reality, they just lose the fee they paid.
Sort of. Nigerian literature has many different genres and themes. Erotic stories might be there among the vast array of written works. However, the more prominent and well - known Nigerian literature often focuses on things like the Nigerian people's struggles, their rich cultural traditions, and the complex social fabric. So, Nigerian erotic stories are not as highly visible or as central to Nigerian literature as other themes.
One creepy story is when a guy kept asking for my exact location within minutes of starting a conversation. He said he wanted to 'surprise' me but it felt really invasive.
A frequent type is the date turning out to be a total mismatch in terms of interests. Maybe they talked a lot online about shared hobbies but in person, there was no common ground at all. Also, people who bring drama to the date, such as constantly complaining about their life or being overly emotional in an inappropriate way. It can really ruin the mood of the date.
One story is about a woman who thought she met the love of her life online. The scammer sent her beautiful poems and pictures. But then he started asking for money for a so - called business deal. She sent a large sum before realizing it was a scam.