Confidence is a major one. For example, if a person is confident in approaching others, it makes a big difference. Also, good communication skills like being able to listen and respond well. Just like in a story where a guy listened to a girl's travel tales and then shared his own relevant experiences, which led to a connection.
One success story could be a guy who was really shy. He learned PUA techniques like active listening. He started conversations with girls by asking open - ended questions about their interests. Soon, he built good rapport and started dating a girl who shared his love for books.
There was this man in a PUA story. He attended PUA workshops to improve his social skills. He learned how to use body language effectively, like maintaining good eye contact and having an open posture. He applied these skills at a party. He first engaged in a group conversation and then smoothly transitioned to talking one - on - one with a woman he was interested in. His new - found confidence and skills led to him getting her phone number and going on a date later.
There was a PUA who thought he could impress a girl by showing off his dance moves in the middle of the street. He started doing some really wild and uncoordinated dancing. The girl was initially shocked but then found it so hilarious that she couldn't stop laughing. She said she had never met someone so confident and goofy at the same time. They became friends after that encounter.
One story is about a PUA who thought wearing a really flashy hat would make him stand out. He walked up to a girl and said 'You must be tired because you've been running through my mind all day.' The girl looked at his hat and said 'Is that hat part of your pickup strategy?' They both burst out laughing. It turned out she was interested in his confidence, not his hat or the line.
One great Dhv (Demonstration of Higher Value) story could be about your travels. For example, 'I was in Thailand once and got to volunteer at an elephant sanctuary. It was amazing to be so close to those gentle giants and help out in their care. I learned so much about their behavior and how important conservation is.'
One funny DHV (Demonstration of Higher Value) story could be about a guy at a party. He started juggling some apples that were on the table when people were just chatting casually. Everyone was amazed and started gathering around him. He then told a joke while still juggling, like 'Why don't scientists trust atoms? Because they make up everything.' This showed his sense of humor and his unique skill, which are both DHV traits in the PUA (Pick - Up Artist) world.
Here's one. A PUA newbie went to a party. He saw a girl he liked and tried to show off his 'mysterious' side. He just stood there, trying to look cool, but accidentally tripped over his own feet when the girl looked at him. Instead of being embarrassed, he just laughed and said 'I was just testing if you were paying attention.' The girl found it hilarious and they started chatting.
Sure. There was a guy who tried to use PUA techniques on a girl at a coffee shop. He started with a cheesy pickup line, but the girl just laughed and said she'd heard that one a million times. Instead of being discouraged, he joined in on the laughter and then they ended up having a really nice chat about how bad pickup lines can be.
Well, simply put, use them to show your positive qualities. For instance, if you have a Dhv story about helping others, like working in a soup kitchen, it shows your kindness. Just share it casually in conversation.