One of the well - known quotes is 'It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything.' This quote really captures the nihilistic and liberating essence that Tyler Durden represents in the novel. He believes that by shedding all the trappings of modern society, like possessions and social status, a person can truly be free to act without constraints.
The quotes also touch on the theme of identity. Tyler's statements such as 'You are not your job, you are not how much money you have in the bank...' force the characters and the readers to re - evaluate what truly makes up a person's identity. In the context of the Fight Club novel, the characters are searching for an identity outside of the roles society has assigned them, and Tyler's quotes guide this exploration.
In "Celebrating Years," the Qing Emperor used PUA (manipulating and using other people's feelings) methods to treat Fan Xian. The Qing Emperor's attitude toward Fan Xian had gone through three stages: probing, using, and opposing. At first, the Qing Emperor did not understand Fan Xian. But when Fan Xian displayed his talent and influence, the Qing Emperor began to develop interest and affection for him. However, the Qing Emperor was also wary of Fan Xian's ability and worried that he would threaten his imperial power. Thus, the Qing Emperor used Fan Xian's talent and integrity. At the same time, he also tested and challenged him to ensure his loyalty and obedience. The Qing Emperor also arranged for Chen Pingping to help Fan Xian break free of his control to deepen the rift between the two. The Qing Emperor's goal was to make Fan Xian a lone official who had a certain amount of power but no true allies. This would prevent Fan Xian from posing a threat to the imperial power. All in all, the Qing Emperor used PUA methods to control and use Fan Xian. At the same time, he maintained vigilance and vigilance against him.
There was this man in a PUA story. He attended PUA workshops to improve his social skills. He learned how to use body language effectively, like maintaining good eye contact and having an open posture. He applied these skills at a party. He first engaged in a group conversation and then smoothly transitioned to talking one - on - one with a woman he was interested in. His new - found confidence and skills led to him getting her phone number and going on a date later.
Well, they often involve male protagonists who are learning or using PUA (pick - up artist) techniques. For example, they might include strategies for approaching women, starting conversations, and building attraction. In terms of the romance aspect, there's usually a love interest that the protagonist is trying to win over using these techniques.
There was a PUA who thought he could impress a girl by showing off his dance moves in the middle of the street. He started doing some really wild and uncoordinated dancing. The girl was initially shocked but then found it so hilarious that she couldn't stop laughing. She said she had never met someone so confident and goofy at the same time. They became friends after that encounter.
Confidence is a major one. For example, if a person is confident in approaching others, it makes a big difference. Also, good communication skills like being able to listen and respond well. Just like in a story where a guy listened to a girl's travel tales and then shared his own relevant experiences, which led to a connection.
One story is about a PUA who thought wearing a really flashy hat would make him stand out. He walked up to a girl and said 'You must be tired because you've been running through my mind all day.' The girl looked at his hat and said 'Is that hat part of your pickup strategy?' They both burst out laughing. It turned out she was interested in his confidence, not his hat or the line.
One great Dhv (Demonstration of Higher Value) story could be about your travels. For example, 'I was in Thailand once and got to volunteer at an elephant sanctuary. It was amazing to be so close to those gentle giants and help out in their care. I learned so much about their behavior and how important conservation is.'
One success story could be a guy who was really shy. He learned PUA techniques like active listening. He started conversations with girls by asking open - ended questions about their interests. Soon, he built good rapport and started dating a girl who shared his love for books.