Understand his interests and passions and incorporate them into your interactions. For example, if he loves a certain sport, plan a related date or activity.
No, it's not justifiable. Imagine the heartbreak your husband would feel if he found out. It goes against the very essence of a marriage which is loyalty. Even if there are problems in the relationship, there are better ways to handle them like communication or seeking counseling rather than engaging in such unfaithful acts.
On the other hand, it could potentially strengthen the relationship. If the husband and wife communicate openly about what he witnessed in these stories, they can reaffirm their commitment to each other. They can use it as an opportunity to discuss boundaries and what they both expect in the relationship. It might also make the husband more protective of his wife and increase his efforts to keep the relationship strong.
Well, this is a rather tricky situation. You could consider involving a neutral third party, like a mutual friend who is sensible. The friend can help mediate and make her understand that taking someone else's personal, especially such potentially private stories, is not acceptable. You also have the right to demand their return directly, but do it in a civilized way to avoid unnecessary conflicts.
No. Incest - themed content, including any form of sexual implications between family members such as a father and someone who is not a spouse in an inappropriate way, is not acceptable in most moral and ethical frameworks. It is also often against the law.
Rather than exploring the meaning of such a complex and unethical statement in erotic stories, it's better to look for stories that promote love, respect and healthy relationships in a proper way.
Sharing such stories is inappropriate as they involve unethical and often disrespectful behavior. We should focus on positive and healthy relationship stories instead.
There are many novels that touch on the theme of a husband cheating. For example, in some classic literature, the author may use this plot to explore complex relationships. In 'Madame Bovary', the husband's indifference and the wife's search for passion outside the marriage are depicted, which is a form of exploring the consequences of an unfulfilling marriage. This kind of story often reflects on the importance of communication and mutual understanding in a relationship.