Well, sometimes it's because she has unresolved issues from her past. Maybe she had a previous relationship where she was cheated on, and when drunk, those feelings resurface and she acts out. Another reason could be that she's bored in her marriage. The daily routine has become dull, and the alcohol - induced haze makes her more open to new and exciting experiences with someone else. Also, it could be a simple case of making a very bad decision under the influence without really thinking about the consequences.
Look for things like unexplained absences. If she says she's going to one place but you find out later it wasn't true. Also, if she has a new 'friend' that she's very cagey about. She may act nervous when this person is mentioned. Pay attention to her communication patterns. If she's constantly texting or taking calls in private, it could be a red flag.
I heard a story where a woman got drunk at a family gathering. She mistook the salad bowl for a hat and put it on her head. Then she started complimenting everyone on their 'fancy hats'. Everyone was in stitches. Drunk moments can be so unexpected and full of laughter.
One sign could be a sudden change in her appearance. If she starts dressing up more than usual, especially for no obvious reason like a new job. Another sign is secrecy with her phone. She might be overly protective of it, quickly changing the screen when you come near or taking it everywhere, even to the bathroom. Also, a change in her work schedule that doesn't seem legitimate, like constantly having to work late when it wasn't the case before.
I usually just let her be. I make sure she has some water nearby to stay hydrated and that she's in a safe place. If she's being too rowdy, I'll gently guide her to a more comfortable spot.
First, open communication is key. The wife needs to be completely honest about what happened and why. Then, the couple should seek counseling. A professional can help them understand their feelings and how to move forward. The husband also needs to be willing to forgive in time.
Some common signs might be being overly secretive with her phone. For example, she always takes it with her to the bathroom or keeps it on silent all the time. Another sign could be sudden changes in her appearance, like dressing up more often and wearing new perfume. Also, if she starts working late frequently without a valid reason, it could be a red flag.
In the movie 'Gone Girl', there are elements of a complex relationship that could be related. The husband's actions while under a lot of stress and his interactions with other women can be seen in a certain light. It's not exactly a drunk cheating sex story in a straightforward way but has elements of relationship betrayal.
Perhaps a story where a drunk wife decided to redecorate the living room in the middle of the night. She moved furniture around, hung pictures in strange places. In the morning, she woke up and was so surprised but then they all had a good laugh and decided to keep some of the new 'arrangements' as a unique touch to their home.