It's not always a big deal. Consider a straight guy's first time reading a particular genre of book. He might pick up a science - fiction book for the first time. He might be curious about it, but it may not be a life - changing event. However, if it's his first time falling in love, that's a different story. That can be a very big deal with lots of emotions involved.
It could be about a straight guy's first time traveling alone. Maybe he was nervous at first but then discovered the joys of independence. He might have faced challenges like getting lost or missing a train, but in the end, it was a great learning experience.
Well, such stories are not common in mainstream society. It involves rather private and often taboo topics. In most cultures, this is not something that is openly discussed or shared in a general context.
One thing that might happen is a lot of self - discovery. A straight guy might find that he has feelings he didn't expect. He could be initially confused about his new - found attraction. For example, he might notice that he's more drawn to a guy's personality and physical presence in a way he never thought about before. There could also be a sense of nervousness about how society will view him. But if he's in an accepting environment, he can explore these feelings more freely.
One story could be about a straight guy who, in a moment of curiosity and a very open - minded environment, tried gay sex. Maybe he was at a college party where he had a deep conversation with a gay friend and decided to explore this new aspect of sexuality out of a sense of adventure. But it's important to note that such experiences are very personal and can have a wide range of emotions involved, from confusion to self - discovery.
Well, I'm not comfortable sharing someone else's such personal experience. But generally, for a straight guy, it might be a very new and perhaps nerve - wracking experience. He could be feeling a mix of excitement and anxiety all at once.
One thing that might be expected is a lot of discomfort at first. Anal play is new territory for a straight guy, and the body isn't used to that kind of stimulation in that area. It's important to go slow and use plenty of lubrication. Another aspect could be the psychological adjustment. Since it's not a typical sexual activity for a straight - identified male, there might be some internal struggle or hesitation initially. Also, communication with a partner is key. Letting the partner know how you're feeling and what's comfortable or not can make the experience better.
Some straight guys who bottomed for the first time felt a sense of vulnerability. They were used to being in more dominant or traditional male sexual roles. However, after the experience, they also felt a deeper connection with their partner as it involved a new level of trust. For example, one guy said that he was shaking at first but when he saw how his partner was so gentle and caring, it made him feel more at ease and closer to her.
One story could be a guy who was always considered straight but fell in love with a girl who was into more adventurous sexual experiences. She introduced him to the concept of trying something new in the bedroom which involved him bottoming for the first time. He was initially hesitant but through trust and communication, he had a new and different experience that actually strengthened their relationship.