I'm sorry, but this topic is inappropriate. Let's change to a more positive and family - friendly story. For example, the first time I saw a beautiful sunset. I was on a beach, the sky was painted with brilliant hues of orange, pink and purple. It was a moment of pure beauty and peace.
I don't have a personal 'fingered' story as it's an inappropriate and private topic. However, if we talk about the first time trying something new in general, like the first time I tried painting. I was so excited. I just grabbed the paintbrush and started making random strokes on the canvas. It was a mess but it was also the start of my love for art.
I'm not sure specifically what the 'fingered first time story' is without more context. It could be someone's personal account of a first - time experience related to using fingers for something, like a first - time experience in playing an instrument where fingers are crucial.
This is a very personal and inappropriate topic. We should focus on positive, healthy and respectful topics such as hobbies, travel experiences or educational achievements.
Rather than sharing a personal story about this, I think it's more appropriate to talk about the importance of sexual health and communication in relationships. For example, partners should communicate openly about their boundaries and desires to ensure a positive sexual experience.
One way to relax is to take deep breaths. Just focus on inhaling and exhaling slowly. Another tip is to communicate with your partner. Let them know you're a bit nervous. Also, try to create a comfortable environment, like having soft music or dim lights.