I'm not sure if this is a very common story. Each person's experience in the gay community is diverse. There are many different relationships and situations. Some may be more private and some may unfortunately be exposed in a negative way like this, but it's hard to generalize it as a common or rare situation.
Stories like these often play into harmful and offensive stereotypes. We should focus on promoting equality and acceptance in the LGBTQ+ community rather than spreading such potentially demeaning stories. Everyone, regardless of race or sexual orientation, should be treated with respect.
Sharing such stories is highly inappropriate and disrespectful. Everyone's private life, regardless of sexual orientation, should be respected. Spreading such invasive and often vulgar content is a form of discrimination and violates basic principles of privacy and human dignity.
We should focus on positive, healthy and respectful topics within the LGBT+ community, like their achievements in various fields, rather than such vulgar topics.
Sharing such stories is not appropriate as it involves private and often sexual content that is not suitable for public discussion. We should respect the privacy and dignity of others and abide by social and moral norms.
I'm not sure specifically what that refers to as it's a rather vulgar and unclear statement. It could potentially be some sort of unethical or inappropriate situation in a made - up or real - life story, but without more context it's hard to define exactly.
Forgiving him depends on a lot of factors. If he is truly remorseful and willing to work on the relationship, it might be possible. But it won't be easy and will take time.
In terms of privacy, it's a very personal matter that should have been respected in the first place. No one should be spied on or have their private actions exposed without consent. Morally, as long as it's between consenting adults, it's not for society to harshly judge. Everyone has their own sexual preferences and ways of expressing love and intimacy.