It depends on the nature of the 'black experience'. If it was a non - consensual or traumatic experience, she should first consider seeking professional help like a therapist. Telling her husband might put an unnecessary burden on him. If it was just a bad sexual encounter in the past, it's better to keep it to herself as it may introduce unnecessary insecurities and negative feelings into the relationship.
It could mean that the ex - husband is exaggerating or distorting details about their sexual experiences together. Maybe he has some ulterior motives like trying to make her look bad or gain some sort of advantage in a situation, perhaps in a custody battle or in their social circle.
The following are some recommendations for ancient novels where the male lead is the ex-husband:
1. "The wife's ex-husband is back" Author: Left Ear Listening to Zen
2. "My Young Man" Author: Not mentioned
3. "Hairpin Flower Young Man" Author: Not mentioned
These novels all had plots where the male protagonist was his ex-husband, and they told the story between the male protagonist and the female protagonist. These novels might satisfy your needs for ancient novels where the male lead is the ex-husband.
The following are some novel recommendations for divorcing your ex-husband: The Happiness Lawsuit with My Ex-Wife 2. " Married Ex-Wife: Wife, Come Home " 3. After the Divorce, He Became His Ex-Wife's Cute Pet My Cute Ex-Husband 5. The Ex-Husband Becomes Good After Divorce 6. The Days After Divorce with My Ex-Husband, etc. These novels covered the various plots and stories between the ex-husband and ex-wife after the divorce, with thrilling plots and ups and downs of emotional development. The specific chapters and content can be read in the links provided.
The following are some novel recommendations related to the divorce of the ex-husband: "After the Divorce, I Stepped to the Top of Chinese Entertainment" 2. My Luck Begins to Change After the Divorce 3. "My Idol Is Me." 4. My Hardcore Music Life 5. Earthy Superstar 6. "Madam is Proposing to Remarry Everyday" 7. The Happiness Lawsuit with My Ex-Wife 8. " Ex-Wife: Wife, Come Home."
One option is to seek legal advice if his actions are causing harm, like in cases of slander. Another way is to distance herself from him as much as possible and surround herself with positive and supportive people who won't believe his false stories.
One consequence could be that the husband may feel jealous or insecure. He might start to have doubts about her past and question her loyalty, even if it was an innocent part of her past.
Possibly, the wife and the ex-husband's girlfriend shared common interests or faced similar challenges, which brought them together. Or it could be that the ex-husband's actions pushed them towards each other.
There were a few novels about her reincarnated ex-husband that she could recommend. These novels included "Rebirth: Part Two: Marry My Ex-Husband","After Rebirth: Marry My Ex-Husband's Grandfather","After Rebirth: I Married My Ex-Husband's Opponent","Marry My Ex-Husband's Brother (Rebirth)","Marry My Ex-Husband's Opponent (Rebirth)", and so on. These novels covered ancient romance, court marquises, modern romance, and other different topics and styles. Which novel to choose would depend on one's personal preference.
There were a few novels about transmigrating and marrying an ex-husband that could be recommended. These novels included "Rebirth: Part Two: Marry My Ex-Husband","After Rebirth: Marry My Ex-Husband's Grandfather","After Rebirth: I Married My Ex-Husband's Opponent","Marry My Ex-Husband's Brother (Rebirth)","Marry My Ex-Husband's Opponent (Rebirth)", and so on. These novels covered different plots and story backgrounds, suitable for readers who liked to transmigrate and marry their ex-husbands.