Because everyone has their own unique experiences and circumstances that shape who they are and what they do. Without knowing those, it's unfair to pass judgment.
I'm sorry if I gave that impression. Sometimes people judge without knowing the full story. Everyone has their own journey and experiences that shape them.
One story could be about a little frog. He was small and not as colorful as the other frogs in the pond. All the other animals thought he was weak and boring just by looking at him. But one day, a big snake came to attack the pond. The little frog used his cleverness and his amazing jumping skills, which no one knew he had, to lead the snake away from the pond. So, all the animals learned not to judge the frog by his appearance.
It was very difficult to judge whether a person liked another person or not because everyone had their own way of expressing themselves and preferences. However, there are some signs that can help you make some guesses, such as:
- Does he often initiate conversations with you? Did he take the initiative to chat with you or invite you to participate in certain activities?
- Did he treat you differently, like he was more passionate or gentle, or made you happy or sad more easily?
- Does he pay attention to your life often, such as asking about your current situation, paying attention to your Social networks, or reacting to your behavior?
- Has he ever done anything special to you, such as giving you a small gift, giving you a surprise, or showing you some special behavior?
If more than half of the answers to the above questions are yes, then he is likely to have feelings for you. However, don't rush to make a decision and don't be too enthusiastic or too proactive with him because it may make him feel pressured or uncomfortable. It's best to wait for him to respond or try to communicate with him honestly to see if you have a chance to be together.
It might be a misphrasing of 'Don't judge a book by its cover'. Usually, it means not to form an opinion about something or someone based solely on outward appearance. For example, a person may look scruffy but could be a brilliant artist or a very kind-hearted individual.
The phrase 'don't judge a book by its cover' is a well - known adage. In an essay story about this, it could be about a person who looks rough on the outside but has a heart of gold. For example, there might be a homeless man who is always dirty and unkempt. People pass him by without a second thought. But one day, a young girl gets lost and he helps her find her way home. This shows that we should look beyond the surface appearance.
Basically, it's a call for others to withhold judgment. When you only know a name, you lack the context of a person's life. Maybe someone has faced hardships that made them act in a certain way. For example, a person who seems withdrawn might have a past of being bullied. Without knowing their story, we can't fairly judge them.