According to Zick Rubin's definition, true love had three characteristics: affinity, a need for dependence; a tendency to help the lover; and an exclusive and exclusive nature. Robert Sternberg divided love into seven types. Consummate love was equivalent to true love in the form of a "soulmate." This type of true love had all three elements of love (passion, intimacy, and commitment), and it was more intense.
True love was " once, only once, and only for one person ". It was when two people's bodies and minds were completely compatible, their hearts were connected, and their hearts were connected. As Elliot said, the two of them could think the same way without words, and they could mutter the same language without meaning. The relationship between the two parties in true love was the relationship between the zither and the zither, the bow and the strings. In the relationship, there was me in you, and you in me. They were lingering and stuck together, as if they were born for each other. The state of feelings was rich and varied. Some were surging on the ground, some were gushing, some were suddenly falling, some were trickling, some were sobbing and hurting themselves, some seemed to be pouring out, some were faint and resentful, and some were agitated and frustrated. In addition, both parties should respect each other in a relationship. They should have a high degree of overlap in their lives. They should know how to reciprocate and tolerate each other, rather than forcefully changing each other's habits or making themselves compromise with each other.
True love outside of marriage was a form of love that existed. Although true love outside of marriage was not common in real life, it did exist. True love outside of marriage usually happened at the wrong time, that is, when two people already had a marriage and family. This kind of love was immoral because it violated ethics and the law. True love outside of marriage was often accompanied by complex emotions and entanglements, because it involved dissatisfaction and disappointment with the existing partner, as well as enthusiasm and desire for a new partner. Although true love outside of marriage has moral and ethical problems, we can't deny its existence. However, true love outside of marriage often did not have a good ending because it happened at the wrong time and met the wrong person. Therefore, true love outside of marriage could only become a kind of longing and concern, and could not stay together until old age.
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There could be a story set in a post - apocalyptic world. A man finds a little girl and they form a father - daughter like bond which is a form of love. They come across a rare stash of candies which they share. But later, the man sacrifices himself to save the girl from some danger, resulting in his death. This way, love, death and candy are all part of the same story.
I'll recommend a few novels to you. " Since I've fallen in love with you, I won't let go." Who else could I love other than you? It was a romantic and youthful campus novel. The female protagonist was optimistic, strong, and stubborn, while the male protagonist was cold and ruthless. The love-hate relationship between them was very exciting, and the heirs of the four major corporations also changed their fates because of the female protagonist. " I'm delivering food in the Tang Empire ", a historical novel written by the glutton Fatty Long. The male protagonist, Gong Bao, was a delivery boy, the female protagonist, Wang Yanran, and many interesting supporting characters, such as the Orc Shidun. The unique character setting was super interesting. 'After Ascension, My Dao Companion and I Traversed Back to the Original World', a light novel by Song of the Morning Breeze. The male protagonist, Yang Yichen, was a transmigrator, and the female protagonist, Gongsun Xingzhu, had returned to the Blue Planet from the cultivation world. Their daily lives were very attractive. " Love Chun Love ", Chun Jing's youthful love novel. The male and female lead Fang Zichun and Lan Keer had missed each other and reunited due to their personalities. Many characters had their own characteristics. Falling in Love with a Little Wife was Dong Xuexue's modern romance novel. The accident at the engagement banquet and the love and hatred behind the conspiracy were very eye-catching.
True love had many aspects: - [Happy to give: True love is a sense of giving, not possessing and taking.] - ** Security **: The sense of security in love is reflected in giving the lover sufficient companionship during the process of getting along, caring and caring with actions, including missing and missing, so that the lover can love each other comfortably and without worry. - Planning for the future: Like what was written in " To the Oak Tree ", share the cold wave, wind and thunder, the mist, the flowing mist, and the rainbow, and have the will to face the future together. - Trust and honesty: Trust each other, share your inner world without reservation, don't hide or hide your thoughts and feelings, listen sincerely and respect each other's opinions. - ** Support and encouragement **: encourage each other, face life challenges together, support and encourage each other when they are in trouble, and make each other feel understood and accepted. - Accepting weaknesses: Accept each other, don't expect each other to be perfect, be able to see and understand each other's weaknesses and shortcomings. - ** Growing together **: explore and discover the beauty of life together, make plans together, encourage each other to improve, and be proud of each other's growth. - ** Taking care of each other **: Take care of each other, pay attention to each other's life and emotional state, pay attention to each other's needs and feelings, and care about each other's health and happiness. - ** Relationship maintenance **: To build and maintain a good relationship together, pay attention to the stable development of the relationship, and be willing to devote time and energy to it. - ** Intimate emotional connection **: Have a strong sense of intimacy and emotional connection, can feel the other party's love and is willing to give his love. - ** Deep intimate relationship **: Able to see each other, perceive needs and emotional changes; willing to support each other, give social support, trust and help each other unconditionally; respect each other's personal independence, preferences and habits; even if life is dull, it can still create fun. - Special acceptance: For example, people with earth signs, even if the other party did not meet their previous standards, they would still choose the other party when they saw the other party's embarrassment, inability, and shortcomings. They would break their principles and lower their bottom line. There were also some manifestations of men loving women: - ** Contribution **: Satisfy women's requirements within his ability, such as bringing small gifts on business trips; willing to spend a lot of time with women to do things they like; not stingy with money, spending for women, spending an average of 20% of his income on women every month. - ** Care and companionship **: Be a lighthouse when a woman is confused and give advice and encouragement; take care of a woman when she is sick; take action when it is raining; worry about the details of a woman's life, care about her emotions, diet, and health. - ** Trust and honesty **: Give women full trust and take the initiative to report their whereabouts; tell women the password of their mobile phones, open up their social circles, work, hobbies, and honestly share their past, including emotional experiences, setbacks, family changes, etc. - ** Preferential tolerance **: tolerate a woman's bad temper, understand her venting when she is in a bad mood, and solve the problem together after she calms down.