If you have any concerns or different opinions about the interracial stories, be honest with her. Maybe you can say that some parts made you uncomfortable or that you have a different perspective. But do it in a respectful way. This open communication will help you both understand each other better in terms of your views on relationships and cultural diversity.
She may see it as a form of entertainment. Interracial stories often have unique plotlines due to the combination of different cultural backgrounds. It's like watching movies from different countries. She wants you to enjoy this kind of unique entertainment as well. And it could also be a sign that she trusts you enough to let you explore different relationship concepts through these stories.
You could tell her directly that you are not comfortable with this kind of topic and ask her not to bring it up again.
Just be calm and listen. Don't overreact. Maybe say something like 'I'm glad you can share that with me, but now we have our own story.'
You should firmly say no if you are not comfortable with it. Your feelings and boundaries are important in a relationship. Don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
If you want to handle it more gently, you could say that you don't understand what she means by that and ask her to clarify in a more family - friendly way. Like 'I'm not sure what you're asking for. Can you rephrase it in a different way?' This gives her a chance to correct herself if it was a misunderstanding on her part.
You can respond in a positive and respectful way. For example, you can show that you appreciate her attraction but also remind her that there are other aspects of you and the relationship that are important.
First, it's really strange behavior. You could gently talk to your wife about the potential hygiene issues. Maybe she doesn't realize that the dog's mouth can carry bacteria. For example, dogs may have licked dirty things before and then lick the stories which might contaminate them.
You should firmly refuse. It's not right behavior. Then have an honest conversation with your friend about how inappropriate this is.
It is not appropriate at all. Watching sexual content together, especially with an ex - girlfriend, violates normal moral and ethical boundaries. Such behavior can be considered inappropriate and disrespectful to the concept of healthy relationships.
You could say that it's a very improper term that belongs to the world of adult - only and inappropriate behavior, and quickly change the topic to something more positive and suitable for your relationship like a new movie or a nice place to visit.