Well, often there's a lack of communication or a miscommunication. Maybe the roommate doesn't share their problems or issues and they start acting out in scary ways. Also, the invasion of personal space can be a big part. If a roommate is going through your stuff or always hovering around you in an uncomfortable way, that can be really scary. And of course, mental health issues that are not dealt with properly can also lead to some truly terrifying situations.
One common element is unusual behavior. For example, like the roommate who talks to themselves or does strange things at odd hours. Another is having a secretive or creepy habit, such as collecting something disturbing like the dead bugs. And sometimes it involves some form of intimidation, like leaving those scary notes.
One of my friends had a roommate who would stay up all night talking to herself. It was really creepy. She would mumble things that didn't make sense and sometimes even laugh out loud in the middle of the night. My friend was so scared that she ended up moving out after a few weeks.
One of my good college roommate stories is that my roommate and I both loved cooking. We would take turns cooking different meals from our hometowns. It was a great way to share our cultures. Every week, we'd have a 'cultural dinner night' where we'd also decorate the room to match the theme of the meal. It made our living space feel like a home away from home and strengthened our friendship.
A really bad type is the roommate who brings in unwanted guests all the time. It makes you feel like you don't have any privacy or control over your living space. And sometimes these guests can be rowdy or disrespectful too.
One common element is a lack of respect for personal space. Roommates might barge into your room without knocking or use your personal belongings without permission. Another is uncleanliness. Leaving dirty clothes or dishes everywhere can make the living environment unbearable. Also, noise problems are frequent. Some roommates are too noisy at inappropriate times, like during study or sleep hours.
My roommate and I had a really funny story. We once decided to redecorate our dorm room on a whim. We went to the thrift store and bought all these crazy items. We put up some really funky posters and even made a DIY lamp out of an old bottle. Our room looked like a psychedelic wonderland for a while. But it was a great bonding experience as we worked together to transform the space into something that reflected our personalities.
One story could be about two gay college roommates who supported each other through coming out to their families. They shared their fears and hopes, and in the end, they both had really positive experiences with their families accepting them.
Stories about how roommates supported each other during exams can be great. For example, my roommates and I formed study groups, shared notes, and motivated each other. We would take turns making coffee to keep everyone awake during late - night study sessions.
One great story involves two gay college roommates who were into different majors but shared a passion for fashion. They would often swap clothes and give each other fashion advice. They also organized a small fashion show in their dorm building to raise money for a local LGBTQ+ youth shelter. It was a really fun and creative way for them to bond and give back to the community.
One positive story is about two roommates. They both loved fitness. They would go to the college gym together, work out, and keep each other motivated. They also studied health - related subjects and shared their knowledge. They were very open about their relationship on campus and were respected by their peers. Their positive attitude towards life and each other inspired others around them.
I remember my roommate was a really early riser and I was a night owl. One day, I had an important exam early in the morning but I overslept. My roommate not only woke me up but also made me a quick breakfast and gave me some last - minute tips. I managed to do well in the exam thanks to him.