We can start by seeing ourselves as the authors of our own stories. This means taking responsibility for the choices we make, as these are like the plot - driving decisions in a story. For example, if we choose to study hard, it's like adding a positive plot development in our life story.
According to this idea, we should focus on creating a memorable story. We can do this by building relationships, which are like the sub - plots in our life story. By being kind, empathetic, and helpful to others, we create strong and positive relationships. Also, we should aim for a good 'ending' to our story. This doesn't mean a perfect ending, but an ending where we can look back and be proud of how we lived, the lessons we learned, and the impact we had on others.
One way is to recognize the different 'genres' our life could be. It could be an adventure story, where we constantly seek new experiences and challenges. So, we can actively look for those adventures, travel to new places, try new hobbies, just like the characters in an adventure story would do. Also, we can learn from the 'villains' in our life story, which could be our bad habits or negative people. By identifying and dealing with them, we can improve our story.
Maybe Shrinidhi Ghatate means that life is full of different chapters, just like a story. There are beginnings, middles, and ends. There are also various plot twists, happy and sad moments, and different characters we meet along the way, all of which combine to form the unique 'story' that is our life.
One way is in writing emails. Instead of writing long paragraphs filled with unnecessary details, we can be brief and to the point. Also, when giving advice, we don't need to give a long backstory. Just state the advice clearly. In meetings, we should focus on the main issues and avoid going off on long tangents.
In a workplace, there could be a team where some female colleagues are very appealing at first glance. But as time goes on, it's the work - related stories, like the projects they are involved in, their career journeys, and the overall office narrative that makes you want to stay and be part of that team. This shows how the initial attraction can lead to a deeper, more meaningful connection based on the'story' aspect.
We can start by being more present in the moment. For instance, when we are having a meal, instead of just thinking about the next task, we savor the taste, the company, and the experience. Also, when we face difficulties, we should see them as part of the journey and opportunities for growth rather than obstacles preventing us from reaching a destination.
By being brief. For instance, when giving directions, just say the essential steps instead of adding a lot of extra details.
To apply the idea of 'life between life stories' in our daily lives, we need to change our perspective. Consider the time between waking up and starting work. Instead of rushing through it, we can make it a time for self - care like having a proper breakfast, doing some light exercise, or just sitting quietly and preparing mentally for the day. By doing so, we are acknowledging that these in - between times are not just filler but an important part of our overall well - being and life experience.
We can apply it by staying calm when facing new or unexpected situations, just like when we encounter a complex plot in a novel. Don't rush to conclusions or overreact.
We should be more patient. Since life isn't a short story, we can't expect instant results. For example, if we're working towards a fitness goal, we know it won't be achieved overnight just like a short - term plot in a story. Instead, we keep at it day by day.
We can start by not expecting every relationship to be like a fairytale. For example, in dating, don't assume that every date will lead to a perfect, long - lasting love. Be more realistic about the potential flaws and challenges.
We can start by seeing every day as a new page in our 'life novel'. Try to make each day interesting and meaningful, like adding an exciting plot twist to a story.