Let's consider a community event. You notice a booth with some lovely girls promoting it. So you walk over. But then you learn about the cause they are supporting, the story behind the event, like how it started, who it benefits, and the future plans. This makes you stay involved, either by volunteering or just being an active supporter. It's about the transformation from initial attraction to a more substantial connection through the story.
In a workplace, there could be a team where some female colleagues are very appealing at first glance. But as time goes on, it's the work - related stories, like the projects they are involved in, their career journeys, and the overall office narrative that makes you want to stay and be part of that team. This shows how the initial attraction can lead to a deeper, more meaningful connection based on the'story' aspect.
We can apply it by staying calm when facing new or unexpected situations, just like when we encounter a complex plot in a novel. Don't rush to conclusions or overreact.
We can start by seeing ourselves as the authors of our own stories. This means taking responsibility for the choices we make, as these are like the plot - driving decisions in a story. For example, if we choose to study hard, it's like adding a positive plot development in our life story.
One way is in writing emails. Instead of writing long paragraphs filled with unnecessary details, we can be brief and to the point. Also, when giving advice, we don't need to give a long backstory. Just state the advice clearly. In meetings, we should focus on the main issues and avoid going off on long tangents.
To apply the idea of 'life between life stories' in our daily lives, we need to change our perspective. Consider the time between waking up and starting work. Instead of rushing through it, we can make it a time for self - care like having a proper breakfast, doing some light exercise, or just sitting quietly and preparing mentally for the day. By doing so, we are acknowledging that these in - between times are not just filler but an important part of our overall well - being and life experience.
We can start by being more present in the moment. For instance, when we are having a meal, instead of just thinking about the next task, we savor the taste, the company, and the experience. Also, when we face difficulties, we should see them as part of the journey and opportunities for growth rather than obstacles preventing us from reaching a destination.
By being brief. For instance, when giving directions, just say the essential steps instead of adding a lot of extra details.
It could mean that initially, one is attracted (maybe in a general sense, not necessarily inappropriately) by the presence of girls, but then stays because of the interesting story. For example, at an event, the girls might draw people in at first, but the story or narrative of what's happening there makes them stay.
In a social event, you might first be attracted to the girls present. For example, if it's a beach party, you see the girls in their swimsuits and it catches your attention. But then, as you start talking to them, you hear their travel stories or their experiences in the ocean and that makes you want to stay and listen more.
We can apply the moral of not being overconfident by being more realistic about our abilities. For example, in a job interview, we shouldn't over - promise what we can do. Just like the gingerbread man thought he could outrun everyone but couldn't, we should know our limits.
In terms of following your heart, we can take risks and pursue our passions in real life. Just like Ariel, if we have a strong desire to do something different from the norm, like changing careers or moving to a new place, we should consider following that inner voice. But also be aware of the potential sacrifices and difficulties, just as Ariel faced many challenges in her pursuit of the human world.