First of all, don't believe it blindly. Since it involves such vulgar and unethical content, it is likely to be a baseless rumor. Then, try to stop the spread of this information. You can say something like 'This is a private matter and we should not spread untrue stories like this. It's not fair to the people involved'.
One should firmly reject listening to or spreading such stories. If possible, tell the person spreading it that this is inappropriate and unethical behavior.
If you hear such a story, you should immediately distance yourself from it. Don't engage in further discussion or show any interest. You can also remind the people around you that spreading such rumors is wrong. This is about respecting others' privacy and promoting a positive social environment.
No, it's not ethical at all. Spreading such stories is a violation of privacy and can cause great harm to many people involved. Affairs are private and often painful matters, and spreading rumors or stories in a vulgar way is unacceptable in a civilized society.
One should firmly oppose and ask the person sharing to stop. It's not something that should be talked about.
I would react with disgust and disbelief. I would try to stop the person from sharing such a story because it is not only inappropriate but also harmful. I might also suggest that if there is a real problem in the relationship described, it should be dealt with privately and through proper channels, not by spreading such sordid tales.
One should firmly condemn the sharing of such a story. Politely tell the person sharing it that it's inappropriate and private matter.
First, you must immediately reject the request as it is inappropriate. Then, try to have an open and honest conversation with your wife. Explain to her that this goes against your values and the boundaries of a healthy relationship. It could be that she is influenced by something abnormal or she has some misunderstandings. If the situation persists or gets worse, seeking professional help, like relationship counseling, might be a good option. Because in a normal relationship, both parties should respect each other's dignity and boundaries.
You could say something like 'Dear, that phrase is a bit unclear and might be misinterpreted. Can you clarify what you really mean?' This way, you are gently asking for more information without being accusatory.
If you're uncomfortable, you should communicate your discomfort clearly. Say something like 'Honey, I don't think these stories are appropriate for us to share right now.'
Politely ask her to stop. Let her know that this kind of conversation makes you uncomfortable. For example, you could say 'I'm not comfortable with this topic, can we talk about something else?'
Politely tell them that this is not an appropriate topic for discussion.
We should not spread it further. Immediately report it to the relevant authorities, such as the school administration or the police if necessary. The victim needs protection and justice.