Courtesy and etiquette training for waiters
The waiter's etiquette training included basic etiquette, professional image, service attitude, communication skills, reception procedures, table manners, privacy protection, and emergency response. Basic etiquette included polite language, correct standing posture and walking posture, smiling service, and so on. In terms of professional image, he taught the waiters how to maintain a clean professional appearance, including clothing, hairstyle, makeup, and other requirements. Service attitude emphasized proactive, warm and friendly service attitude, as well as how to deal with various needs and complaints from customers. Communication skills include effective listening skills, clear verbal communication, non-verbal communication, and so on. The reception process explained in detail the process of receiving customers and the etiquette details that should be paid attention to in every step from welcoming customers to sending them off. In terms of table manners, waiters needed to master the table layout, tableware placement, order of serving, and pouring skills. The privacy protection aspect taught how to protect the privacy of customers during the service process, including not eavesdropping on customer conversations and properly handling customer information. In terms of emergency response, they trained the waiters on how to deal with unexpected situations, such as sudden illness of customers and equipment failures in the restaurant.
Courtesy
The ancient court greeting etiquette was an important etiquette. We can draw the following conclusions: In the ancient court, the court etiquette was an act of greeting an elder or a high-ranking person. The people who paid their respects were usually the elders in the family or the Empress Dowager, Empress, Emperor, and others in the palace. There were clear requirements for the posture of greeting, including kneeling and kneeling. In the Qing Dynasty, a man's greeting posture was to first correct his posture, then step forward with his left leg, left hand on his knee, right hand drooping, right leg half-kneeling, eyes level, shoulders balanced, and not bending over. A woman's greeting to her elders was called the " squatting greeting ". Later, it was gradually replaced by a greeting of placing both hands on the left side of her waist, bending her body in front, and bending her legs slightly. The etiquette of paying respects had specific targets and occasions in the palace, and there were strict norms and requirements. Different people and statuses would have different ways of greeting. For example, the way of saluting the emperor's sisters and daughters was also different. In the Qing Dynasty, soldiers would bend one or half of their knees when they saw their superior officers to express their greetings. In addition, there were other court rituals, such as royal sacrifices and fasting. In short, the ancient court etiquette was an important etiquette. For the people in the court, obeying the etiquette rules was a way to express respect and loyalty.
10 Classic Stories of Courtesy
Here are some stories of courtesy: 1. At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, Guo Linzong went to Runan County to visit Huang Shudu. On the way, he borrowed a kettle to draw water and the kettle fell into the well. The owner of the kettle did not mind and refused to compensate. After that, Guo Linzong went to Huang Shudu's house and received a simple but sincere welcome. When Guo Linzong left, he drank water from the well. The locals called this well the "Well of Benevolence" in memory of the two. 2. When a netizen stopped at a zebra crossing, the old man walked to the front of the car and suddenly bowed to thank him. 3. The two children agreed to go to the exhibition together. One of them was late because of something at home, but she came to explain afterwards and showed her sincerity and courtesy. 4. In front of the elevator in the old neighborhood, a person had repeatedly let others take the elevator. Finally, he met an old friend whom he had not met for a long time. 5. Fang Deyi lived in a house adjacent to the Yuan Dynasty Academy. He voluntarily ceded half of his residence to widen the narrow road in front of the Academy and donated money to build the Tongxi Stone Bridge. 6. After Wu Zidong became a talent with the help of the local sages, he took the initiative to give up the farmland to build the city wall when the construction of Tongcheng needed to demolish the residential houses. 7. At the zebra crossing, the video car and the opposite car stopped to give way to the old and young pedestrians, although the pedestrians "returned the greeting" in a different way. However, it was difficult to gather the top 10 classic stories of courtesy from the information provided. Some traditional stories of courtesy could be added, such as Kong Rong giving up pears: When Kong Rong was young, he knew how to give the big pears to his brothers and take the small ones himself, showing the spirit of humility. There was also the story of Six Feet Alley. The Zhang family and their neighbor, the Wu family, had a dispute over the house. The Zhang family wrote a letter to Zhang Ying, who was an official in the court. Zhang Ying replied," A thousand miles of letters are only for the wall. What's the harm in letting him have three feet?" The Great Wall was still there, but Qin Shihuang was nowhere to be seen. Therefore, the Zhang family took the initiative to give up the three-foot-wide space. The Wu family was deeply ashamed and also gave up the three-foot-wide base. Thus, the name "Six Feet Alley" was given.
The story of not knowing courtesy
Here are some stories of courtesy: - Mr. Shen, the driver of the car with the license plate number Zhe B·L6 * 3T, had no traffic violation record in the past year and was polite in front of the zebra crossing. He was praised by the traffic police. He had gotten his driver's license in 2016. At that time, the city attached great importance to " civilized courtesy of zebra crossing." Previously, he did not give way to many vehicles when he walked. Later, the bus took the lead and more and more vehicles joined the ranks of courtesy. Mr. Shen had also been punished for not being polite to pedestrians, and after that, he paid more attention to courtesy. On March 10, 2010, the "Civilized and Courteous Zebra Crossing" campaign was launched in Hangzhou. In 2012, the "Line Guarding" campaign was launched. On May 10, 2016, the first batch of zebra crossing models were installed with electronic police equipment. On June 16, vehicles were punished for disrespectful behavior in front of the zebra crossing. - Fang Deqian, the ancestor of the Fan family in Guilin, Tongcheng, moved to Tongcheng from Chizhou Chikou at the end of the Yuan Dynasty. When he lived next door to the Confucian Temple, he saw that the Confucian Temple was small and crowded with students, so he donated half of his house land to the Confucian Temple for free, so that the Confucian Temple could expand. - There was an old man who repeatedly gave way to others when he took the elevator after buying vegetables. There was an interesting episode in the process of giving way to an acquaintance. They used to work together, but they only recognized each other after many years of meeting because of mutual courtesy. - At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, Guo Linzong went to Runan County to visit Huang Shudu. When Guo Linzong fetched water, he dropped the kettle. The owner of the kettle didn't mind and refused to compensate him. Huang Shudu entertained Guo Linzong with home-cooked meals, and Guo Linzong didn't care. Later, Guo Linzong bid farewell to his hometown and Huang Shudu sent him off. They met at the well where Huang Shudu fetched water for Guo Linzong to drink. Later, the well was named "Renyi Well" in memory of the two. - Some netizens stopped at the zebra crossing to give way to the old man. The old man walked to the video car and bowed to thank him.
There is a school etiquette
The ceremony of school education was a solemn and orderly etiquette that was followed in ancient times. According to the Biography of Zuo Xiong in the Book of the Later Han Dynasty and other relevant documents, the ritual of Xiang Xu referred to the nine ministers (ancient officials) wearing jade articles during their actions and performing their actions according to certain rituals and regulations. The purpose of this ceremony was to show the identity and status of officials, as well as to maintain social order and etiquette. The etiquette of the school was also reflected in ancient schools. Students also had to follow certain solemn and orderly etiquette in their studies and actions.
Start with love and stop with courtesy
" Emotions are the foundation of relationships, and etiquette is the foundation of relationships." It meant that it was okay to talk about emotions, but it could not go beyond the boundaries of etiquette. This boundary mainly meant that one could not violate etiquette and laws and could not ignore the feelings of women. This sentence came from the first chapter of the Book of Songs, Guan Ju, which was the opinion of Confucius. It emphasized that in a relationship between a man and a woman, the generation of emotions was natural, but the behavior had to be in line with etiquette. Therefore,"starting from emotion and stopping from propriety" was a realm of moral cultivation and a part of the traditional moral norms of the Chinese nation.
The meaning of establishing a person with courtesy
To establish a person with propriety and propriety meant to establish a person's moral character and image through inner cultivation and behavior norms. This sentence emphasized respect and respect for others, as well as the compliance with moral norms and social etiquette. If a person could take propriety as the criterion, not only could he cultivate his own virtue and self-cultivation, but he could also win the respect and love of others. This kind of attitude and behavior that was based on propriety and propriety was of great significance to the growth of individuals and the harmonious development of society.
Courtesy of the monarch and his subjects
There were a few novels similar to 'The Rites of the Monarch and Court'. Among them were Book of Troubled Times, Spirit Realm Walker, Tang's Table, King of Imperial Beasts, and Fairy, Please Listen to My Explanation. These novels all had different authors and plots, but they were all related to the relationship between monarch and minister and love. These novels were well received by readers, with high quality and attractive plots.
Female Lead's Courtesy
There were a few novels about polite and sensible female protagonists that could be recommended. Among them," Kind Her " was a romance novel about the female lead, Su Bai Shui. She was kind and cute and was liked by many characters. In addition," You Call My Name " was a fantasy romance novel, and the female protagonist in the story was polite and eager. These novels may meet your needs for polite and sensible female leads.
Start with love and stop with courtesy
" To express one's feelings and stop with etiquette " was an ancient idiom. It meant that in interpersonal communication, one had to express one's feelings, but also respect etiquette and rules. This sentence came from the first chapter of the Book of Songs, Guan Ju. It described the situation of a young man who could not sleep because he missed a woman. Zi Xia, a student of Confucius, explained in his biography that this sentence was what Confucius advocated: "Happiness is not lascivious." That is, it is okay to talk about love, but it cannot exceed the boundaries of etiquette and law. The "stop" here didn't mean to stop feelings, but to stop within the limits of etiquette and law. One couldn't do anything beyond etiquette and law because of love. In short," starting from feelings and stopping from etiquette " emphasized the importance of balancing emotions and etiquette in interpersonal relationships.
A historical story about courtesy
He recommended a few novels. " Evil Scholar " was a historical novel written by Jin Jiu. It was about the young master of an aristocratic family who was entangled in fame and fortune. The key words of the story were Confucian scholar and Qin Jue. " Mortal: Opening A My World System " was a novel created by Nooo. The main character traveled through my world system and had all kinds of magical operations. " The Supreme Grandmaster of the Wuxia World " was a novel about the infinite universe. The male lead, Yan Ben, was the eldest senior brother of Huashan. He had been adventuring in many Wuxia worlds and had a heroic personality. The supporting role, Ouyang Feng, was also very unique. This book was full of new ideas and was worth reading. " Solar System: Alienation " was a sci-fi novel written by the author. Several characters chased their dreams but dragged the solar system into a whirlpool. The plot was compact and had a deep criticism of capital. Although there were small flaws, it was still a divine work. The author's previous book," Harry Potter: I Am a Legend," was also not bad. " From Inheriting the Taoist Temple to Immortality " was a Xianxia novel written by Master Guqing Jun. The male protagonist, Lu Changqing, sought immortality in the Age of Chaos and stirred up the world of cultivation.