Ask about the sentence translation and structure in English novels

Act like a lady, think like a man
1，He was married to my mother for sixty-four years.
It's not appropriate to use 'for' in this sentence, right? Could it be some special sentence structure?
2，and help the men ready for those relationships to be recognized for what they can and are willing to bring to the table
What does 'be recognized for' mean?
3，try as they might, women just dont get us.
What was the usage of 'get us'?
4，My female listeners really wanted answers- answers to how to get out of a relationship what they are putting into it.
Why was there an 'it' at the end of the last sentence? What does this "it" refer to?
5，men get away with a whole lot of stuff in relationships because women have never understood how men think.
What does a whole lot of stuff mean?
6，when I step back from the jokes, and the microphones gets turned off and the lights in the studio go down.
Step back, this is…
He knew that his daughter's question might be very childish, but he hoped that the prawns would help him answer it ~! O(Pen_Pen)O Thank you

Answer 1

I'm sorry I'm not sure what specific book or passage you're referring to Can you please provide more context or details?

Construction and translation:

- The road ahead was dark and unknown He had no idea where it would lead or what it would hold (The Lord of the Rings)-This sentence described the protagonist, the Hobbit, as the road ahead was dark and unknown, and he did not know where it would take him or what he would encounter.
- The past was a foreign country difficult to navigate The future was a place where he had not been before and there was no knowing what it held. The past was a strange country that was hard to explore, and the future was a place he had never been to, unpredictable.
- It was a time of great change, a time of great growth, a time of great sorrow.
- To be or not to be that is the question Whether it's to be or not to be I don't know (The Divine Comedy)-This sentence describes the philosophical problem between life and death. Whether it's life or death, I don't know how to choose.