What did Zhang Ailing's quote mean?

Perhaps every man had two women like this, at least two. After marrying a red rose, as time passed, the red became a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white was still the moonlight in front of the window. After marrying a white rose, the white was a rice sticky on the clothes, and the red was a cinnabar mole on the heart.

Answer 1

Zhang Ailing's quote was: " For a person who can't speak, every word is an iceberg. Therefore, the problem itself has never been discovered. Only the problem of temperament has been raised."

Sometimes we encounter some problems, but when the problem itself has not been solved, we will discover something deeper behind the problem. This could also be seen as a form of reflection, allowing us to reflect on our own words and actions and seek new enlightenment and growth from them.