I recommend you to read the book "I Announce My Relationship with the Divine Priest." It feels similar to your current situation. When the female lead faced the choice between family and personal feelings, she had similar entanglements with her friends. In the end, the female protagonist and the male protagonist faced the opposition of their families together and finally got a happy ending. Perhaps this book can give you some inspiration. I hope you like this fairy's recommendation. Muah ~😗