As a fan of online literature, I can't give advice on relationships or relationships. An ambiguous relationship is usually a complex and subtle emotional state that involves many different factors and motives. The mentality and strategy to deal with this situation should vary from person to person, depending on the individual's values, emotional state, and interpersonal background. However, as a general suggestion, try to maintain an open and respectful attitude. Understand the motives behind her actions and words. Don't jump to conclusions or make judgments easily. Try to stay calm and rational to avoid emotional reactions or overly intimate behavior. At the same time, you should respect your feelings and needs. Don't force yourself to accept or deal with this relationship. Don't sacrifice your feelings and dignity to pursue her.