He gave up our relationship of more than two years because of practical problems. He wants me to go on a blind date and not wait for him anymore. Is this appropriate?

Because we are in a different place and there is a possibility of marrying far away, his family hopes that he can buy a house here and settle down. However, he is now in Beijing. There are no job opportunities for programmers in small cities. Moreover, he said that he doesn't have much money now. His parents don't have much money saved up either. It's not enough to buy a house for the time being. In addition, he is under all kinds of pressure to get engaged, get married, have children, pay the mortgage, and so on. He really couldn't achieve it now. He's really good. Our relationship is very strong. That day, when he hugged me, I realized that he was crying. I secretly wiped my tears and we went to the place where we first met. He said that he had consciously thought that that would be the last time he would see me. This man said that he wanted to marry me and stick to me like a plaster. He had decided to marry me for the rest of his life, but now everything has been shattered by reality. I'm so conflicted now. I really can't leave him. We've both thought about our future lives. I really can't accept it. I want to wait for him. I really love him...

Answer 1

Seeing this kind of plot, I recommend a book to you, called "The Lamplighter". The plot of the book was very fascinating. It told the story of a girl who had been in a relationship for two months. In order to resist the forced blind date arranged by her family, she mustered up the courage to bring her boyfriend back to see her parents, but in the end, she almost died. The male and female protagonists in the story were separated due to real-life problems. The female protagonist was eventually forced to go on a blind date, and the male protagonist found a new girlfriend after that. However, this blind date process allowed the female lead to get rid of her dependence on the male lead and let her learn to be independent. I hope this book can give you some inspiration in terms of relationships and practical problems. Don't give up hope. There are better opportunities and better people waiting for you in the future. I hope you like my recommendation. Muah ~