I recommend Primordial Heavenly Lord to you. This fantasy novel described how the Sage King was killed by his wife on the night of their wedding. After being reborn a thousand years later, he rose crazily with the memories of his previous life, threatening to destroy all evidence that once existed. This novel matches the plot elements you provided, where the male protagonist was killed by the female protagonist in his previous life and was reborn. I hope you like this fairy's recommendation. Muah ~😗