A novel that seeks to transform from a man to a woman

Don't always think about copying mechanically. I want good works, not piles of them (of course, it's better to have both quantity and quality) I like to watch transmigration, but I won't force it. I don't like reading the full text. It was best for the main character to grow up with his own wisdom, with wisdom as the main focus. He didn't want to be so lucky. He had to be more realistic. The main character should have fewer flaws or gradually mature. He should not awaken at the end. !!! He hated the protagonist who always made boring actions because of his gender. A smart person would always change himself when he couldn't change the environment. Moreover, the protagonist couldn't be too lecherous. He had to be rational and realistic. (The main character doesn't care about gender. It doesn't matter if it's male or female. He doesn't really want to change back.) It wasn't that being rational and realistic didn't mean that the protagonist should be ambitious (such as overthrowing corrupt politics, pursuing philosophy...), He hoped that the protagonist would face danger (threats) most of the time and that there would be a powerful villain worthy of the protagonist. It was fine to relax occasionally. I hope it's a little novel and not a cliché. I like that the protagonist has a variety of personalities to deal with different people (such as being gentle to his loved ones, cold to his enemies...) (This is not very important) The protagonist had to be decisive and far-sighted. A fresh and lovely style of writing is also fine I don't like lilies. Make friends (it's fine if they're close, but they should be friends), or get married for various reasons (I only agree with normal relationships) It was fine as long as it could meet most of the above points, but 1, 4, 6, 7, 12, and 14 had to be followed. I also hope you can satisfy 8, 9, 10, 13, 5. I hope that the novel expert can help me. It's very difficult for me to find something I like to read. Please recommend a few to let me feast my eyes. I'm very grateful. Requesting backup! Alright, you guys can consider my point of view before you answer. You can choose not to follow any of them, but you guys have to answer.