Leander recalled what Gabriella said. If she grew up insecurely, it is understandable that she is insecure. Maybe she is saying this to mitigate the damages of her perceived notion that her love kills.
But to compare her love with his…
Love is not something to compare. Love is not a competition. Love is a mix of emotions. Everyone expresses love in different ways.
She put herself at risk to save him, twice! Isn't there a better expression of love than that?
When will she see what she does for what it is?
He found that she is a confident person when she finds the need to be confident. She is brave. Running toward a bullet needs bravery. Cutting off the manhood of a man needs bravery too. She is not a genius. But she is not very dumb either. She knows it when he lies and she is wise to know when she can push back against him and when to keep her thoughts to herself.