MUTUALITY

Two days to my white wedding a lady called my line and was ranting on the phone, stating that am snatching her fiance from her and I should stay away from him, just after I hung up on her my mum called me inside her room to question me privately about my decisions.

At first, I felt vulnerable to just cry out to her about everything that has happened to me for the past 12 months but the other sides of mine relented. I just took a deep breath and said to her that "everything would be fine".

She was astonished by my statement but she just kept a calm face. I left her room with the feeling of succeeding to let her understand that am OK even though I know am not.

My dad was just excited to see everything going on smoothly, it was as if he was the one getting married.

Edwin came home that day to drop some drinks for the celebration, I decided to confront him about the lady that called,

'" She said she is your fiancé, please I don't want to get myself involve in all your entanglement with other ladies and I don't know how she got my number too".

He wasn't surprised at all, it was as if he knew what I was going to tell him, my anger rose but I had to curtail it because I needed it badly (getting married). Edwin walked close to me and looked me straight in the eyes and said.

"Everything is fair in love and war, if you can't hold a little trial now then how would you be able to hold it after the wedding".

At that point I melted at his words, my anger became my weakness, speechless was the word for me, I was overwhelmed by his words. Hitherto, I never saw the need to reply, to know more about the lady.

The wedding was a blast, everyone rejoiced with us, the celebration was enormous that I forgot all that had happened and where I am now.

I never had the chance to know more about my husband's family, we didn't even date for a year before he proposed, I was determined to get married that even when he was telling me about his father's extravagant life I was all deaf to it.

Like they say marriage starts after the celebration and indeed it was true. Immediately after the celebration, I was visited with my monthly flow which got him more worried and angry, it was as if he had it all planned out about that night of the wedding.

A times God will bring an obstruction just to tell you something but the flesh would push us away from it and our oomph won't be able to bear the result of what will befall us afterward.

We were just there at the hotel discussing without penetrating due to the flow, he was fidgeting up and down without any form of statement towards me. I on the other hand never cared about his countenance, I was excited, taking pictures, uploading new status on my social media handle, calling friends to give them the good news of mine.

I was so engrossed with the honeymoon that I failed to be spiritually minded.

After the five days visit had elapsed, he was overexcited that he had to order for more food saying that I would need all the strength.

We got so intimate that even I never knew when I started whisking alcohol drinks, he was full of much energy and oomph that I was feeling he came just for sex geng and nothing more.

But what can I say, he has fulfilled all necessary duty as a husband should, so I never thought of a foul play whatsoever.