How to Break into a Tight Crowd

The woman you've decided you MUST meet is wearing no

Whatzit? Can't find the host for the Whoozat technique? To make

matters worse, she's deep in conversation with a group of her

friends. Seems quite hopeless that you will maneuver a meeting,

doesn't it? You can't just say, "Excuse me, I just thought I'd eavesdrop in and say 'Hello.' "

No obstacle blocks the resolute politician, who always has a

trick or ten up his or her sleeve. A politico would resort to the

"Eavesdrop In" technique. Eavesdropping, of course, conjures

images of clandestine activities—wiretapping, Watergate breakins, or spies skulking around in the murky shadows. Eavesdropping has historical precedent with politicians so, in a pinch, it

naturally comes to mind.

At parties, stand near the group of people you wish to infiltrate. Then wait for a word or two you can use as a wedge to break

into the group. "Excuse me, I couldn't help overhearing that you

. . ." and then whatever is relevant here. For example "I couldn't

help overhearing your discussion of Bermuda. I'm going there next

month for the first time. Any suggestions?"

Now you are in the circle and can direct your comments to

your intended.