Ghost ex

My ex and I decided to visit my family, the house that I grew up in. It was a short 1.5 week getaway but a good 10 hr flight each way. We arrived on Sunday. Had an amazing get together and fell asleep. The beds have mosquito nets to keep away the bugs. First morning, my ex woke up really frightened. He said that he had a dream of a lady with dark complexion knocking at the window. I asked her to further describe her to me. It matched one of our old neighbors. I use to play with her little girl. I asked my aunt who lives in the house if they did their yearly home blessings. She said yes. We do these to ward of evil spirits and bad energy. I didn't want to scare my ex so I did my best to calm him down. We went to bed the 2nd night. He woke up at 4 am scared and sweating. He wanted to get out of there. I didn't even get to say bye to some of my family. We took off and flew back tues, the very next day. He was shaking when he shared the story. He said the same lady had lifted the net and grabbed his hand in order to forcefully pull him out of bed. He said that she kept on saying go look after my children. She also was moaning in pain. It looked like her right leg was rotten. I believed him at this point cuz my childhood friend's mom died of cancer. She lived next door. She had developed really bad bed sores on her right leg. We as children would hear her crying out in pain. And when she died, people in our little village reported that her ghost would show up telling people to go check on her kids. Her husband remarried and step mom was really cruel to the kids. I had never shared these stories with my ex.