Conquering fear is facing fearConquering fear included facing fear, but the two were not exactly the same.
Facing fear was the only way to overcome it. When people avoided fear, their fear tended to intensify, and facing fear directly could break this vicious cycle. For example, if you are afraid of public speaking, avoiding it will only make this fear stronger every time you face a speech scene. Trying to practice in front of a mirror or simulate a speech in front of a friend is facing fear.
However, defeating fear involved many other aspects. He needed to identify the fear, whether it was a fear of the unknown or a fear of a specific thing. Only by identifying the target of the fear could he deal with it in a targeted manner. At the same time, they had to find out the reason for their fear. It might be due to past experiences or uncertainty about the future. Understanding the reason would help them find a solution. They should also adopt appropriate coping strategies, such as relaxing techniques such as deep breathing and meditation to relieve nervousness and anxiety. When fear is too strong to affect their daily lives, seeking the help of a professional counselor is also a way. He also had to think positively, maintain an optimistic attitude, and use positive self-suggestion to strengthen his confidence in fighting fear. In addition, positive self-talk was also crucial. When negative voices appeared in his heart, he could replace them with positive words, such as " I dare not go for an interview " to " This is an opportunity to show myself, I will do my best." Finally, it was also necessary to take small actions to gradually overcome fear. For example, if you were afraid of socializing, you should take the initiative to greet your colleagues or attend small gatherings. Every time you completed a small goal, you would reward yourself, accumulate confidence, and finally replace the fear in your heart.
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=)Courage is not the absence of fear but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear. People should fall in love with their eyes closed.