my mother s eyes

In the eyes of a mother, a child was a combination of many roles. From an emotional point of view, the child was the softest part of the mother's heart. The mother had an instinctive love and care for the child, and the child was the object of the mother's love. In terms of expectations, mothers might have different levels of expectations for their children. Some mothers might expect their children to do well in school, such as those who always mention "look at how good other children's grades are", reflecting that they want their children to stand out in academic competition. Some mothers also hoped that their children would have good moral character and social skills. They hoped that their children would be sensible, considerate of others, and be able to get along harmoniously in social relations. However, sometimes a mother's inappropriate behavior would also have a negative impact on the child. For example, some mothers would manipulate their emotions and threaten their children with words like " If you don't listen, I won't like you anymore." This showed that mothers might have problems with emotional management and education. Some mothers would over-compare their children with others, such as saying," Why can't you be as good as them?" This over-expectation may stem from the mother's worry about the child's future or her lack of confidence in her own teaching methods. At the same time, mothers should respect their children's uniqueness and recognize that every child has their own growth trajectory and talent. Just as the ideal model of parent-child relationship is to break the symbiotic relationship, mothers need to give love and support while allowing their children to grow independently and respect their destiny. Click on the link below to read the comic "After Divorce, My Ex-Husband Became My Loyal Dog"

A mother might have many images of a child. In the eyes of a mother, a child's small improvement would make her very happy. The child would always be the best in her heart. No matter how independent the child thought he was, he would always be the cute child in his mother's eyes. The single life in the eyes of the child may be free and easy to play, but in the eyes of the mother, she would worry about why the child had not found someone who could take care of her. A handsome boyfriend in the eyes of a child might be like a pig that was eating her own cabbage in the eyes of a mother. If the child thought that he was wearing sunglasses to go shopping in a fashionable manner, his mother might tease him as if he was going to read someone's fortune. The child felt good listening to music, but the mother might think that the child was shaking his head like a deep well of ice. The child felt satisfied when he ate, but his mother would tell him to eat slowly. In short, the mother's view of the child and the child's self-perception were often different. The mother's view contained love, concern, and expectations for the child. Click on the link below to read the comic "After Divorce, My Ex-Husband Became My Loyal Dog"

The profile picture in her mother's eyes had many different situations. Some mothers liked to use lotus flowers as their portraits and match them with words of good luck, implying beauty and holiness. In terms of their views on their children's avatars, some mothers would be more concerned and have unique views. For example, some mothers felt that the funny avatar was like a devil, and using such an avatar would make people feel that the child had psychological problems; Some mothers would make "professional comments" on the avatar, such as saying that the child's avatar was not caring about the buttocks; Some mothers would think that the idol in the child's avatar was neither male nor female; some mothers would even escalate to personal attacks. Of course, there were also children who would lie to their mothers when they asked questions about the avatar, and their mothers were easier to coax. Some children would consider their mother's feelings when changing their profile picture. Click on the link below to read the comic "After Divorce, My Ex-Husband Became My Loyal Dog"

" The coldness in a mother's eyes " was a common phenomenon. It was reflected in the mother's own body feeling or worry. She felt that the child would be cold and asked the child to increase his clothes and other warm measures. This was a kind of overprotection from maternal love. It could be seen from many examples, for example, when the weather was not very cold or the child did not feel cold, the mother thought that the child would be cold. For example, when the weather began to turn cold in autumn, the mother might let the child wear long johns, but the child might think it was unnecessary; or when the temperature was slightly lower, the child only wore a long-sleeved shirt, but the mother felt that it was not enough. She was worried that the child would catch a cold and get sick, so she nagged the child to wear more clothes. This " coldness in the eyes of a mother ", on the one hand, reflected the mother's deep concern for the child's health. She hoped that by keeping the child warm, she could avoid health problems such as colds and cold legs. On the other hand, it also reflected the difference between the two generations of people's feelings about the appropriate temperature. The child may pay more attention to the comfort of the moment, while the mother is more concerned about the long-term health effects. Click on the link below to read the comic "After Divorce, My Ex-Husband Became My Loyal Dog"

The Child in the Eyes of a Mother In the eyes of a mother, a child was like a unique star with its own bright spots and small flaws. Children were sometimes a little muddleheaded. When she woke up in the morning, she was always in a hurry to find something. If her textbook was not missing, then her red scarf was lost. When she ate, she was not obedient. The food often spilled on the table, like a naughty little animal. However, children also had times when their hearts were warmed. When the mother dragged her tired body home, the child would obediently hand over a glass of warm water and say in a tender voice,"Mom, you've worked hard." At that moment, all the fatigue seemed to have dissipated. Children were sometimes careless in their studies. He would make mistakes in simple math questions and always forget about memorizing the text. However, a child's curiosity was like a spark that could start a prairie fire. She was curious about everything around her and often pestered her mother to ask some strange questions." Why does the moon follow me?" "How many stars are there in the sky?" Children were the happiest when they were playing, like a free bird. Looking at her child running and playing under the sun, the mother's heart was filled with happiness. It was a simple and pure happiness. This was the child in a mother's eyes. He had flaws but was infinitely cute. Click on the link below to read the comic "After Divorce, My Ex-Husband Became My Loyal Dog"