What are the key elements in fantasy of manners stories?The key elements often include a highly stylized social setting, with complex rules of etiquette. For example, in many such stories, there are formal balls and dinners where characters' every move is dictated by social norms. There is also a focus on characters' internal struggles within this constricted social framework. And magic or the supernatural might be subtly woven into the fabric of this society, rather than being the dominant, obvious force.
Table mannersTable manners include the following points: First, use the cutlery in the correct order and don't put the cutlery in the wrong position or way. Secondly, the sitting posture should be upright. Don't lean sideways, put your feet together, and keep your back straight. Speak gently at the dining table and don't make a racket so as not to disturb other diners. Taste the food with appropriate cutlery and do not drop it on the table or on the floor. Pay attention to the details of the dining table, such as not exposing your elbows, not pointing your chopsticks at others, not spitting out the food in your mouth, and so on. Don't do anything inappropriate at the table, such as burping, sneezing, coughing, picking your teeth, etc. In short, table manners were a way to show personal qualities and self-cultivation. Obeying etiquette could allow us to enjoy a pleasant and comfortable atmosphere while eating.
Can you recommend some famous fantasy of manners stories?Yes. 'His Dark Materials' has elements of the fantasy of manners. The different societies in the story, like the one in Lyra's world, have their own strict rules and hierarchies. 'The Once and Future King' is another. It has courtly behavior and social structures that are important to the story. Also, 'The Blue Sword' has a fantasy world where social norms and expectations play a big role in the plot and characters' development.
Will the mc give up smoking and eating manners? Because I find his dependence and bad manners unpleasant, I'm sorry if someone likes that but for me it's hateful.