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The seven stages of a dragon were snake, python, boa, flood dragon, dragon, winged dragon, and dragon king.

Marriage usually goes through the following seven stages: 1. ** Passion period **: In the first year or two of marriage, the couple will change from a couple to a husband and wife, but their relationship will still maintain the sweetness and passion of the love period. They had just entered a new stage of marriage and felt the beauty of married life. Both parties were strongly attracted to each other and their relationship was stable. Love was the focus of life and there was no pressure to raise children. They just needed to enjoy life. 2. ** Breaking-in period (power struggle period)**: It starts after the passionate period, usually 1 - 2 years after marriage (some say 5 - 7 years). The romantic beauty of marriage gradually disappeared in the daily necessities, and conflicts occurred frequently. Couples may find that there is a gap between the other party and the ideal partner, and they may even doubt their marriage choice because of quarrels. At this stage, it was easy for couples to expect each other to conform to their own or their own living habits, way of thinking, and child-rearing philosophy. It was easy to compete for control, voice, and status in the underworld. At this time, he needed to think from another perspective, break his fantasy, lower his expectations, avoid excessive interference from his original family, and argue with his awareness and sort it out after the quarrel. 3. Rebellious period: Usually 3 - 7 years after marriage, the relationship between husband and wife will face serious challenges. The frequent quarrels and conflicts consumed trust and love, increasing disappointment, and even shaking the initial heart of marriage. One party might have the idea of cheating. At this time, they needed to understand each other, tolerate each other, and accommodate each other to get through it. 4. ** Cooperation period **: After about 7 - 13 years of marriage, love is no longer the focus of marriage, and the focus shifts to children. Men worked hard to create an environment for their children, while women worked hard to create an atmosphere for their families. Although couples worked hard for the same goal, it was easy to ignore each other's emotional needs. However, the emotional needs of their partners should not be ignored. 5. ** Reorganization period (balance period)**: About 15 years after the marriage, the children will grow up, the husband and wife's career will be stable, and the family conditions and living standards will stabilize. When a married couple reached middle age, they would become more mature and steady. They would know how to tolerate, tolerate, and understand each other. Their feelings would turn from love to kinship. 6. ** Crisis period **: 20 years after marriage, the career may encounter bottlenecks, and the family may have changes, such as the death of parents, the child's work problems, etc. These are not small pressures for the family. The husband and wife need to work together to deal with it. 7. ** Perfect period **: After 30 years of marriage, the husband and wife completely trust and understand each other, and their relationship reaches its peak. The novel "Ten Years of Death" is equally exciting. Everyone is welcome to click and read it!