i promise to make you feel proud

Maybe she achieved something great, like winning a competition or getting good grades.

You may have misinterpreted it, but it should be "a gentleman is proud but does not fight for it, and a group does not form a party". It means that a gentleman is solemn and does not argue with others, gregarious but does not form cliques for personal gain. This concept reflected the way a gentleman conducted himself. They maintained a solemn and modest attitude and deeply understood the true meaning of conducting themselves in the world. They would not be competitive or show off their courage, but maintain their noble character and integrity. In terms of social interaction, gentlemen were sociable but would not form cliques or form cliques for the benefit of small groups. Their circle of friends were mostly people with similar interests, and they did not seek benefits or obtain improper benefits by hook or by crook. This kind of quality could also be used as a magic weapon in the modern world, helping people become upright and qualified citizens, reminding people to follow the golden mean and not be too stubborn about personal interests and reputation.

The meaning of "Cheng" in "Cheng Zhi" was "Shou Ye" in "Shuo Wen Jie Zi", which was to stick and take.

Chapter 187, "The Proud Woman", is the clearest early answer because it turns Wang Tao's situation into a concrete plot event. A useful checkpoint is the way the scene starts with But unfortunately, when Jiang Shixue placed the Ascension Crystal... and follows through with There was also a good chance it could all be for nothing.... By the close, I am Luo..." Hearing the hoarse voice over the radio, Wang Tao's eyes..., and the chapter closes with Yang Changhong shared their upcoming plans.